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I wish the video had just stayed within my subscribers so I could get a good sense of how my audience felt about this and have a discussion. Unfortunately it's derailed because of a response video. Anyway, hope you enjoy


I wish the video had just stayed within my subscribers so I could get a good sense of how my audience felt about this and have a discussion. Unfortunately it's derailed because of a response video. Anyway, hope you enjoy

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Smart. I agree.

Blair

Holy schmoly. I watched your video when it was first posted and only now went back to see the comments. It really is astounding how similar extremists are. Tactics used by extreme SJWs: take someone’s statements obviously not intended to be malicious, get overly offended without bothering to ask for any clarifying information, and bandy together to shame and destroy. The fact that many of the new commentators on this video don’t see themselves as acting the same way is to me just a perfect example of why your moderate petspective is needed. I didn’t see any, “oh, we’ll wait to see what views you think are extreme vs. what may be a more moderate perspective and then address them if we disagree.” It was all or nothing. Tow the line or be cast out. Don’t you dare question the strength or validity or philosophy or value of the known dogma because otherwise, you are not one of us. You see this extreme quasi-blind faith tribalism in religion, in politics, and now in the culture war - and honestly, I think it’s scary as shit.

Thanks for the responses everyone. I am in deep contemplation on this issue and it has been very good for me to hear your thoughts. I'm not sure exactly how I'll proceed from here but I do promise I will always act from my integrity. Thanks for everything, you guys are the best.

Alexander Grace

I have to admit that the red pill extremists is what got me interested in this topic in the first place. As horrible and nasty as some of the comments are, it's content I rarely see/hear because of the intense politically correct world we live in. There will always be a population on the extreme side. It's also one of the stages of red pill rage that men go through, so its not necessarily a static feeling. I find the intense language of mgtow's and red pillars a breath of fresh air 🙃😜I know that's sick but to hear harsh criticism is something you don't hear often. I see it as a way for some men to vent? Venting to me is usually offensive, atrocious but necessary. It's also a way to really know what people are thinking. Understanding the dark side of humanity I guess? It's the dark twisted side of female nature that men have to somehow get their head around. I see them as devastated, bitter and angry and they have a point. I feel for these dudes, especially now I have a son. Online psychology is just so damn interesting!!! All aspects of it. I know it's wrong but I can't help but to peek at the reaction of men via comments. I want to be exposed to it all and learn from it. People having a strong divided opinion of you means you have relevance in this field. That's awesome!! Controversy is good for discussion. I think the hate goes hand in hand with making an impact. If I could be honest I would not have put that video up. That was more of an emotional side of you that is not as effective as your pure content videos. Maybe because I'm a little twisted but I see the bad comments as a form of entertainment. Which at the end of the day help get more subscribers? I say soak up what humanity really thinks and don't be rattled. Looks like you may have to get used to it anyways!! 😉

I guess I'm frustrated that the good red pill ideas are only available from places where they're mixed with actual hate and misogyny. It took me a long time to be able to absorb them, because I bounced off all that hatred pretty hard whenever I checked e.g. the red pill subreddit. It took me a long time to realise there was good stuff there, and in particular good stuff that isn't really discussed anywhere else. Eventually I became able to filter out that stuff (I still hate it, I just treat it as noise and ignore it) to get to the good stuff. There are lots of red pill ideas that lots of men I know could benefit from hearing. But I always think that I couldn't in good conscience introduce anyone to it that I don't trust to critically evaluate it all, and to filter out the good from the bad in the same way.

Jeans

Im still mulling some personal stuff at the moment so I have not read the negative comments as I can guess have issue Mr Garrido eluded to having to do with not really explaining the extremism because that sort of ran through my mind. I have had to move my markers out more and more over the years on what extreme is and guage the person acting extreme. I dont want to judge others by how I handled my life disaster but I do think that the extremism people say is extreme is just a bunch of guys in chat saying vile stuff. words. chest beating and the sort. Put those guys out in a social setting I bet they are as polite and well mannered. So really its tough to read some of the things they say but when I was in my rage It was comforting to know I was not alone and that there are others alot dumber and some smarter than me not handling shit well haha. And I went through the roughest time...no exageration. Few could go what I went through and still feeling the effects of it and not go off the deep end. Thank God that there was MGTOW. and I just wish I had knew all the stuff before my life took a shit.

Feminism and red pill extremism have become so emotional that there is no room for logical discussion. I know you from your videos and I understand what you're saying. It is stirring emotions from a lot of men who have been burned in the past and whose emotions are set to "high." This could be used to your advantage, though.

Hope you don’t get overwhelmed by the hate comments. This video is extremely vague. It may have worked if you had provided a specific example of what you call “red pill extremism” and address it, rather than going around explaining why you think moderation is so important.

I appreciated the video and left a long comment. I'm just encouraging careful differiention of theoretical claims from responses to claims.


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