PATREON EXCLUSIVE: Why Are Some Men Attracted To Crazy Women?
Added 2022-02-11 04:32:30 +0000 UTC
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Great topic and thank you for the take away.
Mark Bryski
2023-07-12 22:46:32 +0000 UTCSo I noticed a pattern of dating some time back where I would date women that ended up having some mental health issues. Not all of them were crazy in the sense that Alexander described, but it got me wondering why this pattern was happening - to the point where I actually went to counselling. People would first think it was the rescuer complex but in every single case, I didn't find out about the mental health issues until well into dating them, after I already had attachments. It would be different if I knew right away, then still made the choice to keep seeing them. I think maybe it was that they felt safe with me, or that I could "read" the signals from them a lot easier than high quality women. Confident women don't tend to let it be known they like you.
Matt Scoggins
2022-02-25 21:50:33 +0000 UTCLmao https://youtu.be/SoXsbD0j70c 😂
Alisha
2022-02-11 23:35:25 +0000 UTCLobsters!! 🤣
Conor
2022-02-11 21:28:49 +0000 UTCAre you Jordan Peterson? 🤣
Alisha
2022-02-11 16:39:08 +0000 UTCThe guys I know with crazy gfs also tend to date hot, crazy gfs only, I view it as they put up with the crazy behaviour of the woman because she is hot and it makes him look good having a “passionate” hot woman. I mean the crazy/hot matrix is a thing. I do think all the points you mentioned are spot on and the last one is quite a truth-bomb xxx
Alisha
2022-02-11 12:23:42 +0000 UTCReally interesting video. It's like Beauty and the beast, but reversed. Instead of a woman using all of her femininity to civilise a man, it's instead a man using all of his masculinity to civilise a woman!
Conor
2022-02-11 11:50:17 +0000 UTCI will have to watch this one again I think, it's a lot to consider. When single, I was never interested in any woman that was "crazy" - too much unpredictability or extreme mood swings have always been a warning sign for me. As I get older though, I fall much more into the "different strokes for different folks" way of thinking. I can see where some guys might find it totally fine or even preferable, but ultimately there is an important but very subtle line. I would describe it more as being about boundaries. I would never want to be with someone if I thought that person would ignore my boundaries or my emotional/physical safety because they are feeling a certain way, or would forget/ignore their own. That seems really unhealthy to me and it’s something I don’t think anyone should tolerate – no matter how hot, or how exciting the other person may be. Finally I’m glad you brought up the idea of the “rescuer” guy. That is such a seductive role to play for so many guys (and I’m sure women too!) and it’s just not worth it.
John Whelan
2022-02-11 05:10:45 +0000 UTC
