PATREON EXCLUSIVE: Is Modesty Attractive To Women?
Added 2022-02-23 05:52:33 +0000 UTC
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I love to dance at raves and techno clubs. Considers myself to be dancing in align with the music. When I see another person, both men and women I give them a compliment. It is highly appreciated by them and also myself to give them compliments. However, my wife are aggravated against me giving compliments even if they are directed and in align with that man's reciprocity. Very strange. Lately I have seized to give dancing compliments.
Tord Pettersson
2024-07-12 16:48:58 +0000 UTCYoung women definitely don’t like modesty in men
Nicholas Booth
2022-07-11 16:10:31 +0000 UTCIf a woman explains something to a man in an arrogant way as if he doesn’t understand something simple is it “womansplaining?” The meaning term doesn’t seem to be gendered at all, making it very sexist. Also, I am comfortable if someone explains something simple to me that I already know. Sometimes I might not know it. The only reason you should get pissed off at this is if you care so much what this person thinks of you that you become offended that they think you are dumb. And if you aren’t dumb then you shouldn’t care if other people think your dumb, because that’s dumb!
Alan M
2022-04-16 04:44:42 +0000 UTCI don’t understand why the term mansplaining even exists. It’s just explaining…which men are generally good at, within their realms of expertise. Why would that be bad? It’s great to learn from those who know more.
RhodiumMaiden
2022-04-15 20:25:42 +0000 UTCThat may be the reason for it… but its pretty hard to dismiss the fact that women are drawn to capable men. How they assertain if he is capable…. Well…. if someone else sings your praises( humourus pick up method actually, have your wingman seed the room with your praises and watch the attention you get is kind of wild (atleast initialy) . ) i guess this is exactly what preselection is.. Or even better, you can show the reason first hand. But sans those. If you are the one to give that information its still a show of capability. If that info is accurate is another thing but its info none the less. You can Be your own cheerleader… and even that is better than modesty… Regardless the reason for that modesty. So women find modesty attractive? Nope…. 🤷♀️
Peter
2022-03-27 06:52:06 +0000 UTC🥸 there are A LOT if people that slurp up that drip. Fake it till you make it. For what its worth. I dont like thst guy either. A hasan piker/ giga chad -extra ordinerre
Peter
2022-03-07 21:45:03 +0000 UTCIt saddens me so much that you validate, albeit casually, such a term from feminist jargon that’s so malicious and hypocritical; so manipulative and passive-aggressive as "Mansplaning." It’s yet another artificially invented fem-word, used practically to silence men and nothing more. It’s only disguised as “women’s rights” issue, this fem-word embodies the same disgusting rhetorical tactic: "Guilt by Association" that feminism advocates ever so typically. It amazes me... How is it possible that *you*, over anyone else in the world, don’t recognize the "ad-hominem" aspect built into this term? Whenever a woman would use this attack in a verbal interaction against me (or any other man) to blame me of "mansplaining" something to her, instead of her referring to the *content* of what I actually said - she would just *assert*, based on sheer imagination that my motive must have been “sexism” towards *her*, and now suddenly everything is about *HER* and her being *woman*, “victim of my misconduct” off course... knowing that after she pulled out the ”gender victim card” - she demonized me as a man – and thus she “won!”, while obviously what she really did is to eliminate a chance for a trivial conversation that can no longer be respectful, constructive or in good faith. I may seem to be picking on this rather off-topic small minutiae, but I definitely think it's a point worth commenting on, especially when I don’t see anyone else making any any similar comment. If there's a reason I feel reluctant to continue paying you money for another month on Patreon, it’s for videos like this one, when you express sympathy to such feminist ideas, or when you claim to invent a new esoteric “flavor” of feminism in the spirit of "no-true-Scotsman", shielding and supporting an umbrella-label that’s being contaminated beyond redemption with unbelievable injustices and damages done in its name to men, boys and society as a whole all over the world, for which no feminist leadership or any feminist key personality will ever take any responsibility. As someone who’s not only looking to expand knowledge about female psychology and improve relationships, but also an advocate for the well-being and human’s rights of men and boys - it’s very difficult for me when I come across someone who on one hand; investing so much in helping men and being REALLY empathetic to them - which is so rare in this day and age, but on the other hand, still manages to be so gullible by being sympathetic towards, and promote feminist tactics that are the most abusive and sexist there is. Know, Alexander, that I appreciate you so much! but those anecdotal pro-feminist bits of your videos makes me significantly reluctant to support you wholeheartedly as I would like. It's a shame...
girado
2022-02-26 23:41:07 +0000 UTCWe all know that guy. He's got to have the last word, he's an expert on literally everything, totally happy to be the loudest person in the room. He's probably got a beautiful girlfriend and you are wondering is that really attractive? Because you can tell he's completely full of himself, totally insecure, and bluffing. Please, pay that person no mind. Whatever you enjoy doing, learn to be great at it so you can benefit others with your knowledge, not to be the center of attention or to outshine others. High quality women will notice this because it's valuable. Anyone attracted to an obvious bluff is not worth worrying about.
John Whelan
2022-02-26 16:41:30 +0000 UTCThere's a significant cultural aspect to this. For example in Sweden and other nordic nations in Europe, being modest and humble is a major part of attracting long-term partners. Almost any kind of showing-off is generally frowned upon even if there are evidence to back it up and show for it. Buying something expensive to show for a successful career or talking about ones own abilities and achievements often attracts the wrong kind of attention.
T13PR
2022-02-25 20:08:12 +0000 UTCEthnic and cultural differences can come into play here as well. For example, where I come from, a traditional person should be self-effacing. One might say about themselves that they were only "pretty good" at something or 'I know a little bit about it'. Not only was it considered good manners, but it was also considered spiritually respectful - only God is perfect, or can make something perfect, that kind of thing. In fact, in our arts and crafts, there is always an intentional symbolic 'mistake', so God and others don't see you as arrogant. So if you're looking to date someone and they are acting overly modest, it could be the culture they were brought up in.
Jennifer Coopman
2022-02-24 06:05:18 +0000 UTCWell, he's lucky to have a friend like you who is geniuinely invested in his self-improvement. You and all of his well wishers could pool in some money to pay for his therapy sessions. You can appeal to his vanity/ego and say that he is too good to pay for therapy so you guys are doing it for him and then maybe something can come out of it. If you guys do this, this guy is one of the luckiest people in the world. He better not be taking ya'll for granted!
Ashwin Srinivas
2022-02-24 02:26:24 +0000 UTCOne of my best friends is not in full touch with reality and I see he’s under an important level of social punishment for that. He is indeed talented (very intelligent), but he acts like he is incapable of failing (he takes tasks and risks where fails often and we joke on how he almost always finds a way to say it wasn’t his fault). Our friends have spoken with him about that unrealistic confidence issue (which doesn’t feel like real confidence). I see this is also problematic with his dating life —his dates at some very early point start “smelling” a problem behind and lose attraction or safety. I don’t know what advice to give (he is obviously in the position of believing he doesn’t need therapy, so that’s not an advice for him). He is a greeeaaat dude and I’m genuinely worried about what can I do for him.
Andrés De La Sur
2022-02-23 14:40:25 +0000 UTCJen got a very nice story
Andrés De La Sur
2022-02-23 14:21:17 +0000 UTC
