Sense of community or cosmic uniqueness. )) (selfies, diary)

1.  The lyrics are so funny ))) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iDnoUrpqBcM&list=RDMMiDnoUrpqBcM&start_radio=1

2. Any infernal society is ruled by the idea that the universe has not given to an individual his own individual, independent from other people, a happy path. Such a society will always "sing songs" about how you cannot survive without others, that you are not enough for yourself and your life, that narcissism and egocentrism (as a manifestation of love and care for yourself) are bad, that you cannot be happy at one with yourself, because you are connected with other people, with the material world, etc. This dish will be served with different sauces. The cult of ancestors, traditions, social norms will be overflowing with such algorithms. Buddha talked about completely opposite things. He taught that the inner paradise (nirvana) is an individual thing that is not connected either with society or with the material world. And I agree with him. We are all physically and mentally separate from each other. We are isolated systems. Something that is going on in my system is my choice, which does not depend on anything external and is not determined by anyone except me. It's simple. I can build hell or heaven inside me, this is my right, because my soul is my property. I do with my soul what I want, when I want and how I want. My soul is my responsibility. The souls of other people and their choices are their right, their responsibility and their consequences and individual karma. .... To admit that you are isolated is to admit your responsibility. You can consider yourself a victim all your life and blame someone outside for your fate, and look for salvation in external gods, idols and teachers, transferring the center of responsibility to external elements, or you can understand that the source of all your problems is yourself, that the only one God, savior and teacher for you is also you. The universe simply multiplies my inner choices by external circumstances. If I choose within myself the element X, which triggers X magnetism, then who can I blame if after some time I am surrounded by X situations, X beings, X consequences? .... And there are two ways, 1. A person chooses a sense of community with an infernal society and plays by its rules, while losing connection with his deepest essence called cosmic uniqueness and individuality. And when the connection with its nourishing basis is lost, then what kind of happiness can we talk about. When a soul is sold for a sense of community, for social adequacy, for social honor and respect, for pleasing, then ... a person simply ceases to understand who he is, where he is going, why he goes there, what he really wants, what is good for him, and what not. He loses his true cosmic trajectory, which the universe gave him, and goes somewhere completely far from his true happy life. 2. Man chooses his cosmic uniqueness. The brighter and stronger the cosmic uniqueness will manifest itself in essence, the clearer a person will be aware of the difference between himself and others. There will be a lot of disappointments.)) He was told that he was loved, but in fact it is not love. Close in blood are not always close in spirit. But for me, a bitter truth is better than a sweet lie. )) And the realization comes that true sense of community is a rare phenomenon, it is a natural similarity of uniquenesses. This similarity cannot be bought, earned, begged, etc.