Dr. Charla Hathaway

Mommy Fantasy

Enjoy this romp into one of my beloved fantasies, taken from Tales of Sex Magic. We all have fantasies--gifts from the gods and goddesses--each one of us unique and lovable.  When you get 5 minutes, close the door and sit back!

2022-09-30 01:38:54 +0000 UTC View Post

Charla meets Betty Boop

I got to meet Betty Boop in Seaside, New Jersey, after attending the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit in Washington DC with my colleague.

Betty Boop. a carefree Jazz Age flapper girl with her winks, shaking hips and cleavage, was unique among female cartoon characters in the 1930’s because she represented a sexual woman...

Photo from the past

OK, are we allowed a blast from the past every once in a while?  This is the Victoria Secret dress I bought at a second-hand store with my mother's birthday money that started my sex work career almost 20 years ago.  I show up to get photos taken for my escort ad and the  photographer os the best--I got to wear...

Charla goes on the road again with her solo show

I’ll be Austin, TX, with my show, Naked at My Age, at the Vortex Theater, Aug 26 & 27, and in Oregon many places in Sept.

I love telling brave and sex stories and making sex work s...

Charla at Portland's Women's rally, March 2022

I had an abortion before it was legal

Dear Pioneers of Passion!

Age brings bravery.  At Portland’s women’s rally, I hold up a sign, “I had an Abortion before Roe v Wade, Ask me about it.”  Others at the rally—Strangers?—catch my eye, nod their approval with hands on heart, giving me the 'thumbs up' and smiling through their masks. &nbs...

The Third Gender, 'Mahu,' in Polynesia

In Tahiti, I swan with black reef-tipped sharks, gentle sting rays, and rainbows of fish and coral.  My favorite—the fat, lush-lipped, ruby red pulsating clams—looked like lips of smiling and  beckoning brothel queens.

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In the folds

Finding myself in the slippery folds of silky labia, I ask the glittering clit, "How do you like to be met?"   "Ahhhh...Humbly, curiously, and with a beginner's mind!" she whispers.

When I catch up with my friend, Eleanor O'Brian, her flo...

Naked Ocean Swim

Just hours before leaving Maui, I found a naked beach.  What freedom!  What a swim!  And the naked people I met were so respectful and safe feeling.  Nudists shed more than their clothes--they let go of pretentions and divisions.  And since nudist do not conflate nudity with sexuality (very important)...

The Mermaid of Green Sand Beach

Before the missionaries came to Hawaii, the native Hula dancers performed bare breasted, just like they lived (mermaids, too!).  Early white missionaries, bringing sewing machines and linen with them, quickly change that.  Still today at the Merry Monarch Hula Festival, everyone's covered.

What have we lost? &...

Ocean Bare

Swimming naked with the fish in Hawaii.  Can you even imagine fish wearing clothes?

On a secluded beach, I met a young woman, we were both alone in a private spot.  I asked her if she would photograph me swimming naked.  She enjoyed it, and bravely asked me to do the same for her--she'd never sent her boy...

Fruit Salad on my body

I went to the Hakalau Farmer's Market down a country road covered with palms tulip trees just north of Hilo, Hawaii.  I bought FIVE plump, juicy star fruit all for ONE dollar!  No kidding!  The woman had just picked them from her tree that morning.  I spent $50 at the cutest country market I'd ever seen, a...

I'm in Bed

I woke up slowly this morning. Is that what the longest nights are about.  Take advantage of them--the Light is coming.  Miss Charla

Wishing you Warm Holidays

I've been enjoying some Holiday dating on Tinder, here's some ideas that make it fun instead of Oh-my-God-is-he-the-ONE!   

H...

Restorative Yoga w/ Charla

Ah, restorative yoga, is fewer poses that are held longer, and it's a restful way to end the day.  Time to feel the body from inside out.

Dear Patrons, here I am with friends at Day of the Dead in Mexico.  ...

Naked Yoga with Charla: Balancing Poses

Why aren't there more men in yoga classes?  Women love men who do yoga, and will dote on them after class.  What a great place to meet cool women.  We think, "Ah, a man seeking balance, not only physical strength, but flexibility, too.

Charla and Sol's intimacy classes in Playa del Carmen

I honestly love offering intimate communication and touch classes in Mexico where the Catholic Church and 'macho' has shaped much behavior.  Traveling in Mexico throughout my early years and living in Mexico as an adult, I can say empowering women to lead and men to give them the space to do that, will bring much pleasur...

Angel Water Wings

You catch me swimming in the Blanco River in the Texas Hill County on Indigenous Day (overdue rename of Columbus Day).  I'm in a canyon of the Blanco River where the Comanche Indians camped and bathed before me...and probably also made water wings. 

2021-10-15 17:48:40 +0000 UTC View Post

Faking Orgasm...really!

You gotta meet my colleague, Melissa D of BodyJoy Austin!  Here we are faking orgasm, or is it faking conversation?—NOT!

I wouldn’t turn over the reins of my BJ Intimacy School after 20 years to just any foxy, smart, passionate teacher.  Melissa D was my choice to mentor, and she’s soaring to new heights...

Naked Yoga with Charla

You know, not all activities are made for being naked...like mowing the lawn.  But Yoga, ah, it's made to do outside, in nature, and dressed like nature.  Kinda like swimming with the dolphins.  Standing yoga poses combine both strength and flexibility, so the masculine and feminine aspects of wellness both get...

Take the Egg Timer off Your Orgasm

I'm the Queen Bee  in this interview with Kim, who asks gutsy questions and gets tips on how to take LOVING from OK to OMG!  The Fairy godmother of Sensuality also shares the "Kissing Game" to add spontaneity to kissing.  Have fun, Miss Charla!

Charla's Naked Yoga is back! Mountain Pose and more!

Dear Beloved Patreon Fans, 

Here we combine love of the body with love of the outdoors!  In my second Naked Yoga lesson, I move from Child's Pose into Mountain Pose, and let you know yoga is more than fancy poses, it's where your body stays tuned to move with ease in our everyday tasks, both l...

Naked Yoga w/ Charla

My first Naked Yoga lesson for you, Dear Patreons, will have you breathing and moving together.  Even from your chair!  And you'll feel like a kid--I did!  Remember when we played Naked Native!?  If you don't--no worries, Play it NOW-- it's more fun as an adult, anyway.  

My girlfriend who vidoe...

I meet a man while on vacation

Vacations are such a perfect time to flirt, take risks, extend friendliness, while all the time you tell the truth, keep an open heart, and let others choose how they may.

3 Slips and Counting

Dear Patreons, 

I meet an Alabama man who wants to model his vintage women's lingerie for me.  Playing with layers of silk, this lucky man gets Charla's 'Finishing School Tips for Boys'  (taken from Tales of Sex Magic & Healing).  This gentleman shares a great story--how...

The Sex Workers Parade

Dear Sensualists,

With Pride Parades (and month!) upon us, I realize how much I long for a Sex Workers Parade.  For twenty years as an erotic muse, educator and bodyworker, I have hidden it, and struggled to make my life presentable. When asked at a party, “What do you do?” I invent respectable answers like ‘...

10 Mistakes Men Make, 10 Mistakes Women Make

Good sex is changing bad habits that don't get us what we want.  Many men and women do these 10 things that kill good loving, or cancel out good touching and kissing. Avoid these pitfalls and turn your sex life into timeless and treasured moments!  Miss Charla

10 Sex Mistakes Men Make

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We're Not in Kansas Anymore!

Dear Ones,

Please enjoy my 4 min. story from my latest award-winning video "Tales of Sex Magic & Healing."  Those of you at the $10/mo tier can see the whole show.  And at the $5/ mo, my first show, "Naked at My Age," about me getting into sex work in my 50's,  I will repost Naked with improved sound!...

I think I need a hat...or some tattoos

DearTribe, 

I invite you to a sexy movie night, a video showing on April 14 of my newest show, "Tales of Sex Magic & Healing."  I'm hosting with Deborah Sundahl, world renown expert on female Ejaculation, and Deborah and I will host a 30 min Q&A with you after the my video. &...

2021-04-10 21:39:18 +0000 UTC View Post

Charla puts on her Mae West

Mae West, Hollywood sex star from the 30’s, helps me be a Rad-woman. She quipped, “I believe in censorship—I made a fortune out of it.”  See her documentary on Amazon, Dirty Blonde. Mae radiates confidence, and here’s a video of me doing a few of her one-liners…

Mae was a pattern breaker—she ...