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What is TIR?

Let's do another trauma technique!! This technique is called Trauma Incident Reduction (TIR) and it's similar to EMDR but a tad different. Tap in to learn another tool for processing trauma!

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Top 3 Halloween movie suggestions! (October's bonus)

Hiiiiiiiii here are a few movies to add to your Halloween watchlist.

(TW/ for some scary shit???) 

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Childhood trauma, resiliency & retirement (October's #AskRaquelSavage)

Yerr! Here's October's #AskRaquelSavage (transcript attached)

1. I have an ACE (Adverse Childhood Experiences) score of 10, what would you recommend I do to build resiliency?

2. How do you use your trauma to empower you vs bring you down? (answered at 10:14)

3. What is something that never ...

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Ask me anything!

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Submit your questions for November's #AskRaquelSavage in the replies!

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Is Plastic Surgery Feminist? (audio version)

Tried something new. Listen to this month's #thoughtprovokingthirsttrap instead of reading it!

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Is Plastic Surgery Feminist? (October's #TPTT)

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The TikTok feminists hate women. There, I said it.

A few months ago, a young Black woman kept popping up on my fyp (“for you page” for those not on TT). She reminded me a lot of myself circa 2016. Passionate, always ready to drag somebody. And, also, at the beginning of her praxis. A few of her videos went ...

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What is EMDR?

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Have you ever heard of EMDR? It's a trauma-informed therapy technique that helps resolve trauma ...works like a charm, unlike talk therapy which is often months (sometimes years) of talking with no "progress."

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I f!sted an NBA player (drunk hoe tales)

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What else needs to said. Tap in. 

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Pelvic floor live stream (full recording)

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Hello, folks! Excited to drop this pelvic floor live stream I did last month with Leah of @Ashevibes -- I learned so much as she went over the nerves/muscles within the pelvic floor and how they interact with our genitals. Tap in!

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What is gaslighting? (June's edu vid)

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Let's fucking get into it.

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Ask me anything!

Submit your questions for June's #AskRaquelSavage in the replies! 

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New episode of (Drunk) Hoe Tales!

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I— don't remember what I talked about LMAO so yall just gon have to watch and see (and imma be watching right along with yall because I was DRUNK). 

WATCH HERE.

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Creating routines for care tasks (May's bonus)

Hey folks, don't be scared off by the word 'routine' -- this month I chatted about how to prioritize care tasks (cleaning up, laundry, yoga, whatever else) in a way that centers you. Often times, people ask us to create routines and offer rigid structures for how to get things done. Beyond that rigid...

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May's #AskRaquelSavage

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This month I answered 2 questions:

1. What are some tips for identifying emotional abuse

2. How/why did I become an MFT

TW// abuse for the first half of this convo!

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Body mapping live stream with @meaganjain

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Hey folks, here's the recording of April's paint & sip, body mapping live stream with @meaganjain -- during this live stream we used art to explore body awareness using patterns and color. We d...

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TW// Quarantine weight (May's #TPTT)

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TW// diet talk, fatphobia, body image

I’ve gained 30 lbs in the past two years.

At the beginning of the year, I had my first divination. My best friend has been trying to get me to do one for years and I’ve been hesitant because it’s an entirely new world to me and, I can a...

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May's #AskRaquelSavage (submit questions!)

Drop your questions for May's #AskRaquelSavage — I'll answer all kinds of questions so ask me anything. This post will be available for Third Base patrons and higher and will drop on May 18th.

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Vaginismus (May edu vid)

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You know the vibes. 

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TOMORROW: Paint & sip with @meaganjain (live stream)

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What: Paint & sip: Body mapping edition

When: Tomorrow (Tuesday, April 27th) at 6pm PST/9pm EST

Who: Third base, Climax & Double O! patrons

Hey folks, as I'm getting back in the swing of posting regularly I'm excited to ann...

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Art as self-care (kinda)

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So uhm, bitches is depressed. It's been a panoramic for like 80 years and we trying our best at coping. 

So here I am, filming myself doing some art to inspire you to do some art LMAO Honestly, they turned out kinda fire so, bare with me. 

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#AskRaquelSavage + divesting from men & becoming a sex coach

Hey folks. I didn't get any questions for April's #AskRaquelSavage so I answered some old ones!!

  1. Do you have any advice for how to navigate the mental exhaustion/dissonance of being a cishet woman who is lonely and desires love/sex, but also believes men are a parasite to be avoided?
  2. I'm having a hard tim...

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Fuck fathers (April's TPTT)

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I don’t talk about my dad a lot. Quite frequently I post screenshots of conversations with my mother, ridiculous shit she’s said that’s usually corny albeit centered around something supportive. She’s become somewhat of a staple in my brand – colonizer mom who supports her whore daughter. We love to see...

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April's #AskRaquelSavage (submit yo questions!)

Hey mf's, drop your questions for April's #AskRaquelSavage - I'll answer all kinds of questions so ask me anything. This post will be available for Third Base patrons and higher and will drop on April 20th. 

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Processing your feelings (April's educational vid - early access)

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What the fuck does it mean to "process" your feelings?????? That phrase is used so frequently within the mental health & wellness community and often the meaning gets lost. So, I decided to breakdown the ways you can start to be more present with yourself, lean into your uncomfy emotions and process things as they happen ...

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KINK MEDIA GROUP IS NOW ON YOUTUBE

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Exciting news! Kink Media Group is now on YouTube and all podcast platforms!

We appreciate all your love and support on Patreon and, now that we're expanding, we're asking you to follow us on other platforms!

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A conversation with survivors (live stream)

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To celebrate the end of the survivor takeover, we had a collective convo as a possibility model for what it looks like when survivors connect and just, shoot the shit! There was no intended purpose — we simply spent an hour asking each other random questions about food, healing, and other things that feel important to us th...

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The cooptation of the movement to end rape by Leila Raven

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A Wolf in Sheep’s Clothes: The cooptation of the movement to end rape

By Leila Raven 

As abolition takes center stage in the movement to defend Black lives and defund the pol...

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A conversation with @natinthehattt & @ngwagwa

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"The power of communication in order to keep each other safe." 

@Ngwagwa and @Natinthehattt reflect on their shared experiences of man...

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Surviving a domestically violent hero by Jessica Orta

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No matter how much time passes, it feels like just yesterday that I had shielded my two-year-old son behind me as my husband wielding a knife and threatened to stab me. Him telling me that I would be lucky to leave that room alive haunts me to this day. Being a political activist in a domestically violent relationship with a ...

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Freedom from my call-out ft. @itsjujubae

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How do I decide if I want to organize a public call-out? 

Juju (@itsjujubae) opens up about her public call-out process and speaks to the anxieties, worries, and freedom that lies on the other side of publicly na...

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