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YULE AKASHIC RECORDS READINGS

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Opening up pre-booking for Yule Readings.


This is a personal Akashic Records reading including a general channeled message for Yule (in December) and channeled message for each month of the coming year (2023).


This is meant as a guide to help you move through whatever challenges, celebration...

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Re-Introduction Time: Hi, My Name's Dixie!

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Hello friends! 

For a while I hung out in this space under my community name, Dixie. And, I absolutely do still go by that name. In fact, it's how a lot of my friends through the k!nk scene know me, and I keep it that way not because I don't want to share myself with them but because that name honours a part of mys...

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Tell me about your first kiss

I laid in the dark room, arms straight at my sides staring up at the ceiling. I was overly conscious of every movement, and every sound . . . My stomach turned in anticipation and I felt saliva gurgle as it settled in my throat. I held my breath: Oh my god, did he hear that?


Embarrassment crept across my face...

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Weekend Reflections (10/10/22)

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This weekend I fell in love.


As I walked through a city whose pavement knows my steps, I felt whole.


I felt a calm within my soul that I have not experienced for a very long time.


The first was in Toronto when I landed on the city streets and amidst the hustle and bustle I f...

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The Joys (*sarcasm*) of Tinder (oh and P.S. SW IS WORK)

In addition to my writing on here and my fulltime job, I also do consulting and create soul-aligned branding for sexually liberated womxn.


This includes professions like:

• Dance instructors


• Healers

• and Professional Companions


In my tinder bio, I men...

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Mood: Mind Your Own Uterus

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So much writing to come . . . Waiting to be back at my computer and to share all the beautiful experiences I’ve had away in the mountains 🏔

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Summertime Update

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This little kitten has been Hella busy and also has some very exciting updates.


But first: the pink elephant in the room. You may have noticed I have not been active on my k!nkstagram, and am a lot less responsive/engaged with messages. Truthfully, the content creation (visual) just is not drawing me in latel...

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Kitty time 🐈

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Sometimes Mr. C is just too cute but then I realize I can’t share the pics on my regular social media 😅


Also yes I have ridiculous tan lines right now and I kinda like it.

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First ever backpacking trip! 🎒 And life updates . . .

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This past weekend I escaped with my B to the forest for both of our’s first ever backpacking trip! It was the exact pause I needed with everything that’s been going on in life lately and I’m so proud of us for doing the thing!


There was a ton of laughter, some tense moments due to exhaustion from the he...

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Status Update: Busy Kitten

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Hi friends 🙋🏻‍♀️


I’ve been a little MIA and I realize I owe you a couple chapters of that story I was writing BUT truthfully, I’ve had such busy days lately that creativity and I are not so hand in hand at the moment. I promise though, the crinkly adventures of the cutest cat sitter ever will ...

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Staycation Part 2: A Mostly Fictitious Story

I was still avoiding eye contact - Partially because I was wrapped up in the thought I had just mentioned, and partially because I was shy. I'd never shared these thoughts with someone before and I was worried he might not enjoy them as much as I did . . . I was actually nervous to enjoy them as much as I thought I could . . ...

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Staycation Part 1: A Mostly Fictitious Story

I've been such a busy little kitten over the last while and have had next to no time to decompress so when the day finally came for the week long staycation I had been planning with my friend Mike I was so excited! I counted down the minutes until I finished my big life responsibilities and then instantly began to pack all of...

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First time Momma (MDLB)

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Last night I got to be momma to the absolute cutest bby boy in the world and it was a deeply restorative experience. 

It started with him coming over and we had dinner and just got comfortable, then I walked with him into the bedroom and I did my special folding technique for his dip before laying him down to put i...

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Unfiltered + Vulnerable - Body Dysmorphia

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Content note: Body dysmorphia/Fitness/Weight loss


So, this isn't along the usual lines of what I share here or maybe it is. I always say I need to be able to share all of me, and today, this is where I'm at. So, if you will meet me here and help hold me, you are welcome. If you can't, that is also okay an...

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Why do I call you "Daddy"?

TLDR: I used to think it was super weird, then someone explained it to me, and then I liked it. 

You've heard me talk about "daddy" or my friend named B. What you may or may not have known is he is the first person I ever explored DDLG and ABDL with, ever. What you also may be quite surprised to find out is that be...

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Age Play + Regression: What's the Difference?

In my last post I talked about keeping aspects of little space to myself, because I need them and they are an integral part of my self-care and actually what I am currently working on with my therapist. I didn't really get to be a kid, for a lot of different reasons, and so allowing my grown-up self to let go, and letting my ...

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When Self-Care Becomes Performative

I love being seen, being watched, feeling another's gaze upon my skin when I am feeling my most vulnerable but also totally secure in my body . . . When I feel the exact way I know they see me being. That moment of pure turn-on at th...

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The Problems with a Niche K!nk

So, I honestly did not know what to title this one but it's a thing I've been thinking about for a while, and the more I think about it the more I push away from producing content. And thus, it's time to talk about it.

To start, y'all may know there is a difference between a k!nk and a f3tish. In short: Some k!nks may b...

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Pandemic Musings of an Immunocompromised Kitten

The last 24 hours were rough.


Details aren't super important because the specifics really aren't the thing I'm processing but this particular situation brought to the surface all the things I have been suppressing for the last two years (since the pandemic started).


Contrary to what some mi...

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K!nky Q&A: A Guide to Solo Wax Play

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Some of you may recall I have shared on my Instagram about "Daddy". This person has been a super important part of my journey into k!nk and liberation of self and access to pleasure. We are not together - nor have we ever been in a committed, romantic rel...

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K!nky Story Time with Dixie

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I remember the day I first experienced the rush of build up before the release that comes just a second after you think you can't take it anymore. I was sitting in the chair facing the mirror, holding direct eye contact with myself. He ran his fingers through my hair and held just tight enough . . . Just such that I could mov...

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The Unexpected Codependency

Today I want to talk about the upside-down side of "codependency". It's that side where you feel you have to take care of yourself to guard someone else and protect the security (read: false sense of) in a relationship. It's the times where you step back from your truth or stating your needs because of the nature of a relatio...

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My Responsibility as a Sub


I hear people talk a lot about how the sub holds all the power (true), and how one can only be as dominant as their sub is willing to submit (also true). The Dom has a job to create an environment of safety and security, t...

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What’s Dixie Doing?

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Bath time 🛀 for this lil kitten (not all cats are scared of water 😸). Friday I saw my trainer, rode a horse for an hour and the Saturday I worked at the barn for four hours so I am sore and in need of some self care.


Currently reading: Return of the Trickster by Eden Robinson


P.S. beco...

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Neurodivergence & the Birthday Struggle

I've never much liked birthdays. I never really knew why, but I knew that when they came up is when I felt the most alone in life - Like I was on the outside of a thick pane of glass watching everyone else play the coolest game ever and I was the only one who had not been given the instructions. 

It wasn't the gett...

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Gettin' to Know Dixie - Ten Fun Facts About Me!

1. I realized this year that I am on the autism spectrum (ASD) and also have been living with ADHD my entire life. 

2. When I was eight years old I got hit with a golf club (accident) under my left eye and had to get stitc...

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Consent Isn't Just for S*x

In an online community I facilitate, we have a community guideline that reads: Consent is. 

Full f*cking stop. 

Perhaps you've heard the phrase "consent is s*xy" before? I have, and while I appreciate the intent the impact can be highly problematic. Here's why: 

  • This is often taken to im...

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Who is Lil Kitten Dixie?

Y'a know it's funny . . . As I wrote the title I realized that even though she is me, I am very much still getting to know her. I had this conversation with a friend recently on the topic of gender, and how someone they knew was seemingly changing their mind quite frequently. I responded with the query: Are they changing thei...

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