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Added 2023-09-19 09:46:35 +0000 UTCComments
Please grace me with a clue 🥲 lol
Keni Bones
2025-10-23 18:10:59 +0000 UTCUpdate: I used the power of determination and scrolling and found your link
Pinstripeflower
2024-06-27 18:50:59 +0000 UTCOmg I have never used patreon or discord before and wow was it hard to figure out how to get here. I'm also struggling to find the discord server!
Pinstripeflower
2024-06-27 18:44:30 +0000 UTChi ! im having the same issue .. not sure why there isnt just a post with the discord link for mobile users but i want to let you know that im also trying and also cant find it and and im also getting frustrated with u
Kylie Miller
2024-06-11 21:29:52 +0000 UTCI STILL CANT FIND THE DISCORD!!!!!!! IS ANYONE GONNA HELP AT ALL OR AM I WASTING MY TIME!!!!! SERIOUSLY, I NEED HELP AND AM NOT HEARING BACK FROM PATREON AND NOBODY ELSE SEEMS TO EVEN CARE EITHER!!!! THIS IS WHY I HATE ASKING FOR HELP, I NEVER FUCKING GET HELP FROM ANYONE!!!!!!
Wheels
2024-06-11 00:06:15 +0000 UTCI still can't get in the discord! My username on discord is Knightofcups0001. Hopefully someone can add me otherwise I give up on discord amd patreon
Wheels
2024-06-10 17:41:44 +0000 UTCI still need help!!!!!! Why doesn't anything just work the way it should!
Wheels
2024-06-10 16:40:02 +0000 UTCAlso I can't do PC, I need mobile specific instructions
Wheels
2024-06-10 16:22:24 +0000 UTCThe directions don't make sense and I still keep trying to click on things but nothing works and I hate this
Wheels
2024-06-10 16:10:28 +0000 UTCThe directions don't make sense and nothing works like how people keep explaining it and I hate this
Wheels
2024-06-10 16:08:09 +0000 UTCAnother Member said that: On PC you click the "I'm Autistic, Now What?" on the left under "memberships" ...then you go to the Memberships tab & the discord link is there. On your phone it's in a similar place, but clicked on the "I'm Autistic, Now What?" picture at the very top & then you get the Membership tab & discord is in there again. You might have to have discord installed first though.
I'm Autistic, Now What
2024-06-10 16:04:17 +0000 UTCDoes anyone at all have any idea what to do? At all, I need help finding the discord still and I'm not having any luck. I'm getting super frustrated with patreon and discord at this point and am getting close to the point of giving up and deleting both because it's too frustrating and nothing seems to work amd I hate all of it
Wheels
2024-06-10 15:54:52 +0000 UTCDoes anyone know where else to find a link to the discord. I can't find it and I'm starting to get frustrated cause I know I found it last time amd now I feel like a complete idiot
Wheels
2024-06-10 15:31:54 +0000 UTCI had to make a new discord account and I don't remember where to find the link to the server and I forgot how I did it last time and I can't find how to get to the server again and everything looks different from last time and I'm ready to just give up. Does anyone know where it is? (Also I'm on mobile, If that helps)
Wheels
2024-06-10 15:12:54 +0000 UTCNo, due to issues with discord I had to have my discord account tied to a different email from my patreon account
Wheels
2024-05-14 21:09:08 +0000 UTCAnd thank you for joining! 🐌
I'm Autistic, Now What
2024-05-14 20:56:35 +0000 UTCThere's a lot more! Have you linked your Patreon and Discord?
I'm Autistic, Now What
2024-05-14 20:56:19 +0000 UTCHey, just joined. I can only see the welcome and announcement channels on the discord server. Is there more than just that?
Wheels
2024-05-14 16:21:10 +0000 UTCI was watching with my 9 year-old and at the end of one of your videos she asked if we were a Patreon supporter and I told her we were and that your channel was new and your Patreon was just starting... then she was looking at the list and I thought to myself, well that must have been a fever dream thinking that you were new on Patreon and there wasn't anyone else here when I first got here... but then today listening to you and Claire she commented how fast your channel has grown and I thought... hmmm, maybe I didn't make that up after all? sending congratulations and thanks! Wearing my pin proudly to another school function tonight.... 4th time this week hanging out with other parents, so very relatable to what you were just sharing too ; ) although separated from my ex for a few years, other parents have just been finding out, so been feeling even more "othered" when out on top of being too burned out to mask... the little pin really helps to feel connected to others in the community when out and feeling isolated, thanks for putting the effort and thought into making them!
Matthew Paprocki
2024-03-15 18:04:20 +0000 UTCFor Discord? On the intro video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ClgG_9J9cTE&t=285s) you can see where it showed up for me after signing up at 16:27. Let me know if you're still having trouble! :)
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-12-11 15:21:36 +0000 UTCwhere invite
JD_Kreeper
2023-12-10 17:53:12 +0000 UTCWe'll sort it out, don't worry! Are you trying on desktop or in the app?
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-11-17 09:40:07 +0000 UTCYes :(
Mari Kene
2023-11-17 04:30:52 +0000 UTCOh noo - have you still not been able to get on?
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-11-16 20:07:23 +0000 UTCI can’t access the discord server 😭 it just won’t open or let me in, idk. Is there an invite link you could provide please??
Mari Kene
2023-11-15 06:38:29 +0000 UTCI’ll look at it tomorrow. It’s 21:30 now and I’m beat. I’ll dig up my password and log into Patreon on my desktop
Marietta Cook Larsen
2023-11-14 20:30:31 +0000 UTCHmmm... are you able to connect it via desktop at all? Or desktop mode on a mobile browser? I'll ask other members what they did.
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-11-13 18:54:27 +0000 UTCMy handle on Discord is Stormbrise (original is stormbrise#6845 if you or someone can invite me.
Marietta Cook Larsen
2023-11-13 14:57:50 +0000 UTCMeg, I just watched the video, and you show it in your video on how to connect. However, I use a Patreon app, and the discord link does not appear in the app. Could you maybe put that video here and pin it? Or put a comment that is pinned with the information? I am AuDHD, meaning, I hope I do not click on some other rabbit hole in youtube. Yeah, you almost lost me there, because it tried to open youtube in a browser, and I also use an app for that since I do pay for an ad-free experience. I put my blinders on and typed in the video title to find it.
Marietta Cook Larsen
2023-11-13 14:52:17 +0000 UTCOn the intro video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ClgG_9J9cTE&t=285s) you can see where it showed up for me after signing up at 16:27. Let me know if you're still having trouble! 💛
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-11-13 13:50:48 +0000 UTCHow do I get on the discord server?
Marietta Cook Larsen
2023-11-13 12:00:52 +0000 UTCThank you so much for joining, Michelle and for all of the lovely things you've said here 💛 I'm so sorry to hear your daughter has struggled so much. The teenage years are so incredibly difficult. I'm so glad my video was useful. Finding out about PDA changed my life!
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-11-10 09:41:53 +0000 UTCHello! I had to reach out to thank you for your honest presentation of such educational content. My daughter (18) has been struggling for about 6 years. Despite other diagnoses, therapy, and multiple strategies of motivation I’ve been getting increasingly concerned about her mental health and her ability to function in the world. A friend sent me a link to your video “Are You PDA?” and it all made sense. I’ve learned so much over the last 3 weeks. Unfortunately, in Canada PDA is relatively unknown to many mental health professionals, so the information you provide has given us an explanation that finally makes sense, and it’s completely changed my perspective and my understanding of how she thinks. My daughter and I love watching your videos together. You are just lovely, and your genuine and supportive messages gives compassionate guidance to the beginning of our journey of learning and processing all the information on PDA and ASD 💖
Michelle
2023-11-09 00:53:05 +0000 UTCThank YOU so much for being here and for sharing that with me. I'm so glad I could help a little 💛
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-11-04 14:43:43 +0000 UTCThank you so very much for doing this! You were the first video I watched on YouTube when I embarked on my journey of self-discovery, and through you and others I am bit by bit gaining a true sense of coming into myself with understanding and acceptance and much relief. I really appreciate you!
RaEarl
2023-11-04 01:39:56 +0000 UTCThank YOU for all your kind words Meg, and actually everything that you’ve been doing/sharing 💙 My favourite Disney is very, very hard to choose ( and also changes depending on my mood 😅 I’m currently watching Coco cos 1: Día de los muertos tomorrow 2: it’s my early childhood in Gibraltar 😍😭😭😍 The others currently vying for 2nd place are Zootropolis, Tangled (those damn lanterns hit me right in the feels every time 😭😭) and Moana (that one gets me cos Ocean🥹 I miss not being a short walk away from the sea. So now you gotta share your favourites (or maybe make a YouTube short, telling us all your favourite Disneys, and why!?) 🤞🏼🤞🏼
Buddy
2023-11-01 21:50:09 +0000 UTCHEY STEPHEN I KNOW LOOKS CAN BE DECEIVING... 10/10 song!!
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-11-01 14:58:12 +0000 UTCYou're not an imposter, Steve! But I can relate to that feeling. I promise no one will boot you off 😊 Thank you for sharing this here and being so open with us 💛 I'm sure the more you post, the more comfortable it'll become to be yourself. It's really hard to shed a lifetime of masking. It sounds like your sister does incredible work! I LOVED Animal Crossing on the DS. Lewis did too! What are your favourite Disney and/or Pixar movies? I don't mind you calling me Meg at all 😊 Thank you so much for your kind words 🥹💛 It's great to have you here!
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-11-01 14:57:22 +0000 UTCOn the intro video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ClgG_9J9cTE&t=285s) you can see where it showed up for me after signing up at 16:27. Let me know if you're still having trouble! 💛
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-11-01 14:23:12 +0000 UTCOkay. I cannot find the discord join option….. please send help?
Mari Kene
2023-11-01 00:51:09 +0000 UTCOh, and Taylor Swift is amazing 💙🥰💙(she even wrote me a song!! 😅😅)
Buddy
2023-10-31 20:16:50 +0000 UTCI’m going to introduce myself again… 😓 mainly because, well, reasons 😓I’ve felt as though I was an imposter here, worried that someone would notice, and boot me off discord 🥺 I’ve been told that I need to get back on here (by my autistic sister, who travels the U.K. holding lectures & workshops with employers, as to how they can improve the workplace 🥰) I realised with her help, that even here, I’m still masking 😔😔 So here I am again, and (what feels like) baring my soul 😬😬 My online name is Buddy. Cos it’s easier to hide behind. I’ve played Animal Crossing since the first one came out. It’s the closest I ever get to being the real me. I absolutely love Star Wars 😍 Marvel 😍 (comics AND movies) and Tolkien 😍 I cry pretty ouch every time I watch a Disney or Pixar movie. I’ve also played Dungeons and Dragons (ever since we were branded ‘devil worshipers’ 😱😱🙄) and many other roleplaying games. I’d never realised how much I didn’t want to be me, so I escaped into books, comics, movies, and games. So, yeah… that’s me. Crying my eyes out as I write this, because I don’t think I’ve ever taken my mask off in decades, and I desperately want to keep it off. You are an incredible inspiration Meg ( if you don’t mind me calling you by your name 😬😬) and thank you for everything you’ve done for us here 💙💙 Hi. My name is Steve. 🥹
Buddy
2023-10-31 20:09:15 +0000 UTCThank you so much! I'm so honoured that you decided to join. I'm so lucky to have such a wonderful community here 🥹
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-10-22 15:31:05 +0000 UTCI just wanted to say thanks as well. Love your videos and yep, this is my first Patreon too. The Discord is really (really) a great place. Everyone is super nice, helpful and understanding. Thanks for making all of your content. Your channel is currently part of my rabbit hole journey to try and figure some things out, and is a great resource!
MistakenlyOdd
2023-10-21 19:49:30 +0000 UTCYay!!
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-10-20 22:17:21 +0000 UTCI found it! 😃 I love it so much It feels like an autopia
Boxcar Willie Nelson Mandela Effect
2023-10-20 15:23:15 +0000 UTCApologies that I only saw this now!
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-10-20 13:06:26 +0000 UTCOn the intro video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ClgG_9J9cTE&t=285s) you can see where it showed up for me after signing up at 16:27. Let me know if you're still having trouble! 💛
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-10-20 13:06:15 +0000 UTCOk so I'm feeling pretty nervous asking this but I have a terrible time finding links to things on patreon & I would really love to join the discord so ...how do I do this thing? thank you so much for this patreon and your channel and the difference you've made in my life every time I watch a new video of yours, and I'm so happy to be able to actually tell you [relatively] in person (kind of) (you know what I mean lol) (hi)
Boxcar Willie Nelson Mandela Effect
2023-10-19 15:32:58 +0000 UTCI'm SO honoured that you decided to join! Did you catch the little tour at the end of the announcement video? That might help with navigating the Patreon and Discord :) Thank you for being here, though! And please feel free to communicate however you like - rambling and emojis and long posts are all more than welcome here 💛
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-10-15 10:36:47 +0000 UTCHi hi 😁 1st patreon ever! I just had to, I’m loving what you do 🥰 and I’m so glad I found you on yt 😊 I am an over-emoter 😅 with awful autocorrects 🤪 (so, much apologies to y’all in advance 😅) I am also much confusion navigating my way around here 🙄😬😂I’m sure I’ll figure it all out in a few hours/days. Anyhoo, I just wanted to thank you again for doing all this 🥹 oops… I’m also guilty of being a rambler (not the going on long walks, although I do occasionally 😅) *tries to stop but has huge trouble doing so.* please feel free to boot me from here cos this is such an incredibly long post which I really didn’t mean for it to happen, but it did 😬😓
Buddy
2023-10-14 21:49:52 +0000 UTCBrain salad, I like that! My go-to descriptor for my some-kind-of-neurospicy is brain soup. When I got my very slap-dash ADHD diagnosis last year from my GP, starting meds was like finally getting a ladle 😆🧠🍲🥄
Paula Fleming
2023-10-14 03:10:46 +0000 UTCIt’s ok, thank you so much for doing this. The snails are adorable and very creative so I love the idea behind all this and you created a safe space.
Jessica Timmons
2023-10-13 16:35:57 +0000 UTCThank you 🥹 Everyone on here is so lovely, so I'm very happy too! 💛
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-10-13 15:01:51 +0000 UTCGlad you managed to sort it! Apologies that they make it difficult to find 😩
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-10-13 14:56:13 +0000 UTCSooooo happy you've done this!!
Melody Hession-Sigmon
2023-10-12 23:41:20 +0000 UTCNever mind I went on my Pc and got it. It doesn’t show up on mobile at all.
Jessica Timmons
2023-10-12 00:14:15 +0000 UTCI am on mobile and can’t find the Discord link, please help?
Jessica Timmons
2023-10-11 23:33:43 +0000 UTCOn the intro video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ClgG_9J9cTE&t=285s) you can see where it showed up for me after signing up at 16:27. Let me know if you're still having trouble! 💛
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-10-11 20:45:47 +0000 UTCwhere is the discord link? (edit— i found it)
skdammit
2023-10-11 20:41:37 +0000 UTCThank you SO much 😭 You're too kind! And I'm sure the snails say thank you too!! 🐌
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-10-11 20:39:22 +0000 UTCI'm so so honoured 😭 Thank you SO much for being here, Jennie! 💛
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-10-11 20:38:18 +0000 UTCI'm so glad I could help a little and congratulations on your diagnosis 💛
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-10-11 20:37:42 +0000 UTCI feel so honoured!! Thank you both SO much 🥹
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-10-11 20:36:49 +0000 UTCYou're so kind! Thank you so much for joining 🥰
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-10-11 20:36:14 +0000 UTCDiverse brain salad!! I love it 😂 Thank you SO much for being here!!
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-10-11 20:35:33 +0000 UTCYes, the plan is to send via Royal Mail 😊
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-10-11 20:29:34 +0000 UTCI follow a lot of YouTubers but this is my first time doing the patreon thing. (No pressure) I’m super excited to be here. Thanks so much for all you do!
Jennie
2023-10-11 19:10:18 +0000 UTCI'm so excited to be here! Yay for extra content and supporting fellow members of the diverse brain salad! 🧠 🥗
Brooke Beauregard
2023-10-11 17:59:19 +0000 UTCDo you send the badge/badges through Royal Mail?
Damaris Russell
2023-10-11 17:06:34 +0000 UTCI just wrote a long and gushing thank you to you for starting a Patreon and for all the amazing videos. But I suspect you had so many new patrons join that you just crashed Patreon:) And the snail is perfect because I have the same issues as you on walks lol!
Fenella Foxcroft™
2023-10-11 16:48:38 +0000 UTCexactly!
Katiee
2023-10-11 16:10:04 +0000 UTCI only got diagnosed within the last year or so and watching your stuff has taught me a lot plus made me feel so validated and seen. <3 Very happy to be here with you and the community you're making.
Lunal
2023-10-11 16:04:29 +0000 UTCThis is the first patreon I've ever cared enough to join. Thank you for being you!
The Digital Autist
2023-10-11 16:01:52 +0000 UTCYou are the best autistic person on YT (I hope it doesn't sound weird...) and I'm so happy that you have created this space <3 I was wondering lately if there is any platform to connect with you. Thank you so much for your work!
Katiee
2023-10-11 15:19:48 +0000 UTCThank you SO much for joining, Matthew! I'm planning to upload the announcement video this week, so hopefully you won't be the only one in here soon. I really appreciate your support 🥹
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-10-09 11:21:11 +0000 UTCHello! Thank you for all your doing. Happy to be able to be able to support and be to connected. - Matthew (aka ‘offbeep’ on YT)
Matthew Paprocki
2023-10-08 17:44:50 +0000 UTC
