Life Update! 😝 March Preview!

Believe me I know what you are going through I just my Mother New Year's morning 2018. I took care of her from 2000 until 2018. Just make sure that you get enough rest. I unfortunately didn't follow that advice. I maybe got 3 hours a night because I had to listen to makle sure that she didn't have a stroke or fall out of the bed. And make sure that you take care of yourself ( doctor's appointments, etc.)

Thanks to you Gael!!! ... when the family is in difficulty for some reason all own commitments may be temporarily missing or chaotic. We do not have a crystal ball to see and plan our whole life. People generally understand immediately when another person is in difficulty. It happens to everyone. In any case, take care of yourself and your family dear Gael :-)

The greatest Mayor of all time

The new system sounds like a lot of fun; and anything that will help you be with those you love is A OK to me. Love ya Mr. Mayor!

Cherry Riley

Take care of yourself and everybody around you. Much love.

Thanks for the update. I cared for my mother full time who had dementia and although stressful and time consuming, it was an honour to care for her and to keep her in her own home. There were lots of good times and although she passed 3 years ago, I have no regrets. Pleased that you have support as although I have a large family, all local and in good health, all the care fellows to me. Sending you love, keeping you all in my thoughts. 💖💖💖

Just a quick word, Luv, til I can write more: Aww Gael, Sweetie, I totally get it!! Been there and it can be so rough & tough but so rewarding at the same time. Please. Take some time for You as you can. We’re not going ANYWHERE, Luv. And we’ll happily go with the flow whatever it may be. So, til next time Much, Much Love for you Sweetest Heart, Huge Hugs and Prayers. and Positivity for you and family as well. All will be well. ~Your Sweet C

As a person with a chronic illness, it’s commendable that you’re still so dedicated to your creativity while being a caregiver, IMO. It makes me even more proud to be your patron. Best wishes to you and your family!!

Georgia M

Care giving is tough, but still rewarding; that's been my experience. Don't forget to do a little "self-soothing" with what brings you plasure. I hope that making audios are among the things that give you pleasure. Any time you need to vent/ramble...we're here to listen

Betsy ♍

Mr. Mayor we are just here. 🤗 Always. I am so sorry that there are bumps in the road. And I pray it will all get better... 🙏💖

You. Are. The bestest. 😘 losta hugs.

Never worry that you are short changing us. We all understand how unpredictable life is. For me personally, I get how stressful being a care giver is. We went through it for 5 years when my mom had her stroke & up until she passed almost 16 yrs ago. Now we are going through it with my 91 yr old FIL. We are watching age rob his memory, act like a belligerent child at times, and all around, turn him into a man we no longer recognize. But we are so grateful to still have dad. It's put a lot of stress on our marriage but I've always stressed to my husband, DAD comes first. Every day we still have him is a Blessing and we want no regrets when he's gone that we should've done more for him. Dad still drives (although he probably shouldn't) and still lives on his own. He is truly an amazing man and I've been lucky to call him Dad for the past almost 45 years. So take all the time you need and know that we WILL be here waiting and appreciating all the time and effort you put into your audios. We adore our Irish Mayor and wouldn't trade you for all the tea in China. Take care. Sending hugs, love and prayers for you & your family.

Family is more important than anything else, so it's totally understandable. Thank u for the update. Best wishes 🙂

We've got a saying in midwest, with regard to responsibility and obligations. "The field ain't gonna plow itself." You've got things that need your attention. Best take care of it. And while I'm here, I thank you for the changes to the PA tier. I wanted to contribute more, but honestly didn't want a PA. I'm weird, I know. Maybe in the future I'll change my mind, but at least now I can give more without the extra bits.

+50 Points for the Disney gif, Bex!! Although, now I'm curious. If this is a family, does that mean we're in a "Sister Wives" kind of situation? Because I'm totally cool with that. If you guys pick up the slack on Butt Stuff Nights, I'll help with making dinner, babysitting and all that jazz. Deal? 😁💜

Grace

Much love to you Gael ❤️❤️

Whatever you need, G... you should know by now that we appreciate everything you do for us as much as you appreciate our support... we also recognize the time and effort you put in to everything you do and your desire to make sure everyone's needs are met as much as possible - ours and your family's... but family first, my friend... and in the midst of trying to take care if everyone else, make sure you take of you, too... that big heart is precious, so keep it strong and filled with the love of everyone whose lives you touch in all the extraordinary ways that you do 💜... if you ever need a break, don't hesitate to take one... just leave the porch light on and we'll keep the rockin' chairs warm while you're away 😊... *big hugs and smoochies on yer forehead* 🤗

Kerrie Virginia (Gaelandia's Mildly Amusing Ambivert)

I'm wishing you and yours all the best, Gael. If you need to take time off for yourself or your family, please do so! We'll be here.

Having been a caregiver for my mom before she passed, I know how rewarding having that time with her was, but also how draining it could be, so I totally sympathize luv. I hope your situation isn't as dire as that and that all parties get better soon. Thankfully, you have a big family to hopefully help out and give you some respite time as needed. I'm not sure how the whole new system for PA's will work, but I'm willing to give it a whirl. Could be fun, as I rather enjoyed reading the scenarios in the Santaforce thread, but I don't know how often I'll have time to dream up a new scenario. I tend to be a bit of a perfectionist. Heck though, I've already waited a year for a PA might as well stick it out and chance my luck a bit longer, like. 😜 Wishing all the best for you dear. 🥰

Chelie

I understand so much how you must be feeling right now. My dad just had quadruple bypass surgery about 3 weeks ago now and it really does change how you see things and you're right, it's a full time job looking after your family when they need you sometimes. Take the time you need and hopefully your family members get to feeling better soon

G you have saved my so called sanity on more than several occasions, be with your family and be sure to take care of you too. Caretaker fatigue is no joke, sometimes you have been my only escape so I know for sure I and some of my fellow Lovelies here will be more than happy to be yours! Rough seas make better sailors luv! 😘😘😘😘

Take care G, speedy recovery for your family member! I hope you remain strong. We are all really grateful for all that you do❤️

Thanks for keeping us updated "G", whatever you need, in the way of love and support you have! We are your family in a different way , but we all love you! Take care of you.

Family always comes first. We still love ya and will be here waiting with open arms and support!

You're a good egg, Gael, and you've got your priorities well in order. We'll be here to support you no matter what. Thanks for keeping us in the loop! 💖

AutumnWillow

As I’ve said before, you and your family are the most important things in life and work should never take over that. Thank you for keeping us updated. We just want you to be the best you that you can be. If that means changing things up and taking more time for yourself, we support that. We all love you and your art! 🥰 Take it easy and stay beautifully you ! 😘

That's a good idea, you're awesome Gael !! :D

You have to do what's best for you and your family, but don't forgot to make time to look after yourself. We are not going anywhere, so take all the time you need!! 💖💖

Rachael

I'm sorry to hear about your family problems. I hope things look up soon. I'm glad to support you. Thank you, Mayor Gael XD <3

Denise Figueroa

Take as much time as you need, G! We’re not going anywhere. Sending love to you and your family! 💜 <img src="https://media1.tenor.com/images/7ca76583be4a100a65b87ebc64a5b3d8/tenor.gif?itemid=5632918">

Hugs and love, Mr. Mayor! I know what it’s like to be the caretaker. I have kids who still need me and parents who are needing more now that they are getting older. So I definitely understand how your time is not your own! Family comes first. You take care of you and yours. I wish health for them and sanity for you. 🤪😁 I like the workshop idea. Whatever works for you, honey! 😘

*flings love at you, too 😍😘❤️

We are all saying the same thing... family comes first, so I hope that shows you the support we have for you...💕💕💕💕

Thanks for the update, Gael. Life is unpredictable and we all have to slow down and adjust during difficult times. Your selflessness baffles me. Also, the fact that you have found a new system to not only maintain but also to improve things is genius! Kudos to you! We're so lucky to have you. Really. I don't know if you realise how many lives you've saved. Your audios have been my lifeline for months and you're part of the good things that help me to function daily and not give up on life. You're here for us. We're here for you. It's a virtuous circle :) I wish you and your loved ones peace, love, and everything in between ♥️

Delphine (half French half mad)

Hi Gael, I won't be going anywhere either. Please know I'll be keeping you and your family in my prayers. Big hug coming to you from me as well

You’ve always reached out for us and fairly done a lot, so don’t y’a ever worry 😘

Hey G! Caregiving is no joke. You've got my support and respect, of course. Love love love you!

Trina

Gael you are truly a beautiful soul. Thank you for all that you do. Your work is a lifesaver for me but we always have a bank of brilliant audios to listen to so don’t worry if you don’t have any time to record. Your family comes first and you -beautiful man - come second. Take care and big hugs x

Gaeli, I know you don't like us making a fuss over you, but let us take a moment to love you like! <img src="https://i.giphy.com/media/3oEjHBZgYBIfFJl0SA/giphy.webp"> You probably don't even realize how much you, your work and the community you have created mean to us! It makes me happy to know I can support your doing what you love and taking care of your family! Please also take care of yourself, too! We'll always be here cheering you on!

Well love life happens and we just have to roll with it. You maybe a dreamboat but you also live in the real world where people get sick and things happen. None of us will are upset that you wanna be good to the members of your family. We all have our favorite audios to hold us over to we get us a NEW Gael fix. You take care of yourself and your family and we will all be here waiting on you. We support and care for you. We got your back Daddy 🥰💋💋 kiss and prayers from a South Carolina Girl

Aww dang it, Gael, if I met you right now, I’d give you the biggest hug ever😂☺️! And don’t worry I’m definitely not going anywhere, Gael🥰 I’m praying for you and your family for whatever’s going on. Obviously family comes first but I just want you to be happy and taking care of yourself too. I just want to thank you for teaching me how to love myself a little bit more, smile a little bit more, and love a little bit more 😅 Ive been enjoying everything you’ve done so far so just take care of yourself, okay? Much love and prayers 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

Thanks so much all! As I said, this will help me to be busier and share more. I noticed at Christmas that I was able to get to a lot of people in 10 days. I think I got to over 15 people. Also your ideas don’t have to be anything other than a spark, so you don’t have to worry about creativity and such. It could be one line and it’s enough for me ;) I’ll be reaching more of you this way I feel, and I think it’s a fairer system. ☘️☘️☘️

Darlin, as long as I have an income I will continue to support you Sir Gael. You serve your family well, we will all still be here for you when you come home at night. Don't worry about dissapointing any of us with the number of audios released Sweet Alpha Gael, everything you do is so sincere and caring for us that it is my opinion breaks in a schedule are nothing to get upset over as your patron. You take care of your family dearheart, we only have our loved ones (be they 2 or 4 legged family I might add!) for a finite period of time, and need to love and appreciate them accordingly. We love you Gael, thank you for caring so much for all of your lovelies, and Blessings upon you and yours.

KrystaLynne

Family first love. I feel ya. My grandfather died in August and now his wife (my grandmother) has been in the hospital for a week. We all have our loves in life to do such as hobbies and sometimes out job/hobbies. Like my gaming channel and writing but when life comes at us, we have to do what we must. Dont worry Gael, your lovelies have your back :)

We're always gonna be here for you, Gael! I'm a caregiver for my family too. I fully understand what you mean when you say your days are never set in stone. Change can be hard, but it makes us better people. I'm endlessly grateful to you for everything that you do for us and I'm looking forward to continuing this new adventure with you. Whatever happens in the future, we can (and will) get through it together! We love you to bits, G! 😘💚

Grace

Family first! Your family is lucky to have someone like you caring for them ❤️

Allison Rae

We aren't going anywhere lovely G, you are ways so supportive of us all and, for me personally, when my mum was so ill you sent me an encouraging message and the lovelies all sent positive vibes and good wishes... I really hope your family get well and strong again soon, 💕❤️💕🙏🏻

Gillian Cann

Hey darlin! Always remember FOE. Family comes first. You have to do what you have to. We’ll be here waiting! Xoxo .., hope your family is ok ❤️❤️

Awwww Gael, don't you worry about a thing. You take care of those responsibilities in your life. We will continue to be here cheering you on. I myself am no stranger to difficult times, and I fully understand. All my best to you, and your loved ones during this time.

Family is the most important thing in life ❤️And you have created a very unique and powerful team here, with all these wonderful people 👍❤️👍And I must say, I am so proud of how you share your talent /use your talent to help /improve /inspire /entertain the world 🙏❤️🙏That is really Goodass Prana 😇❤️👍And how all people here support each other 🙏❤️🙏You just do what is needed to do, and everybody will be here and support you 👍❤️👍Have a wonderful evening 🌃☘️Goodass Prana 😉🙏😉❤️😊☘️

Sending positive thoughts and vibes your way G. I personally know how hard and draining it can be emotionally and physically when taking care of loved ones......if you're like me, ya can forget sometimes to take care of yourself too!(Don't forget😊) I wish you and your family well Darlin'💜

We love you Gael! I hope everything is okay with the family and im thinking of joining the tier as it's totally worth it 😍😘. Can't wait to see more content.

Stephanie

And personally 😘😘😘

You know Gael, you make me proud of you more and more every time you post an update regarding your family and how this may affect your schedule and you don’t stop here, you explain and update us with your new schedule and timing.. I just love it how you keep us in the loop and treat us as your second family!!! This is very appreciated and I must say, you are a good boy (like how mom’s say to their good boys) with a kind heart and pure soul.. I know there are moments were we drive our parents nuts, but at the end, they are all we have and we appreciate them and all the things they have done to us and in return we do the same for them.. Take care of yourself and your family! We are here for you and to support you! And we love you as much as you love us!❤❤❤

Sending all my love to you and your family! ❤ You are so so appreciated! I can imagine how chaotic and difficult it is to juggle such a busy recording schedule and looking after your family. I admire your strength, compassion and discipline. I love it how you keep in touch with and open up to us. You treat us just like family. It makes me super proud to know such a loving and gentle soul! I know how draining it is to deal with health issues. I have been struggling with health issues myself and thanks to you, i have found relief through your audios. You keep a smile on my face with your silly jokes and loving kissies while i lay in hospital beds and for that i am eternally grateful. Don't worry, love - We all have your back 100%! 🥇 You take care of your family and yourself, and we will be here rooting for you! I wish you all the best ❤💌

Don’t you worry Gael, we’re just happy to have you around this page whenever you can, however many audios you put out! 😘 I hope everything goes well with your family and of course we totally understand! ❤️ You’re always so kind and present with us even when you have tons of things going on in your personal life! I also think you had a wonderful idea with the thread! I’m sure it’s going to work out very well! 😉 I’m looking forward to the next months! 🍀😊 Be well Gael! We’re here and not going anywhere! A big hug! ❤️❤️❤️

You do whatever it is you need to do. Been at this stage of life for awhile now, and you're right, your life is so unpredictable. Thank you for thinking of us like you do! You are a gem! It's a special person who can put others before themselves as you do. You ROCK!!

Thank you for the update, sir! I appreciate all your efforts to keep us in the loop &amp; provide us with content even in the midst of all your personal upheaval &amp; commitments. Please try to take care of yourself as you're taking care of others! 💞💞💞 I can't speak for others, but at least I'll be waiting patiently (if eagerly!) for any audios you send our way!

You and your family come first above all else. Take care of them and please look after yourself. You won't be any good to anyone if you deplete yourself. I'm new here so whatever you do sounds great to me.... I'm excited to see the workshop thread and if it makes things easier for you, count me in. Blessings light and much love to you and your family. 💜💛❤

Bless your heart gael. We understand and best wishes. We know you gotta take care of your family and yourself first because that is important.

Full_Metal_Angel

I said in another post that I am new here, so I don't know whats going on with your family, I only hope it gets better. I too am a caregiver so I understand the demands it puts on a person. Your audios really help with that because its a few minutes out of the day I can just have to myself and relax and dream and fantasize. I hope you are taking some time for yourself as well because it is important.

Dany Blackfyre

Thank you sharing this with everyone. Find a good balance and don't wear yourself out.

Amy

An audio boi’s gotta do what an audio boi’s gotta do. All the love to you and your family, Blefbi. And to anyone else who needs an extra bit of love flung at their faces at full speed rn too. Also like, don’t forget to relax and treat yo self once in a while too? You and Seanie can do some cute face masks together 🧖‍♂️🧖‍♂️ Cuídate 💛💫🌻🌅

Dear Gael, I like your plan!! Whatever you need to do I/we will be supporting you no matter what! Family should always come first and I do know how stressful and unpredictable it is to be a caregiver. It’s especially challenging when it’s a loved one vs a stranger. Please don’t forget to keep yourself on the top of your list-self care only helps you better carry out the rest of your list!!👍🏼😉 For all the ways in which you’ve uplifted my life I THANK YOU!! You are an extraordinary human and we’ve always got your back, love!!👌🏼👊🏼😘💖💖💖💖💖

Jenn (Preemie Cuddler)

Being a caregiver is a very difficult, draining, and often thankless job. As many here are already saying, be sure to take care of yourself and your needs too, G. We tend to forget ourselves when we focus on looking after others and have so much else going on in our lives, but it’s so important to make sure you focus on you as well. Hopefully the hilarity and ridiculousness we try to have here and in the wilds of Twitter will also help lift your spirits when you are feeling overwhelmed by it all 🤡 You do what’s best for your schedule; I know we are going to love the work you put out no matter how it’s done. We are all so happy to be here and support you, and whatever is in store for now and the future it’s going to be amazing! 🍀 So much strength and support to you lad 💚

Get your butt ready workshop...yes here we cum😁😋🔥❤️

Thank you for your kind announcement Gaeli. We all love our families and so do you. There’s absolutely nothing in this world more important. Take your time for them but also for yourself. You also need some me time. We’ll be here for you no matter what. through ups and downs. In good and bad times. Like forever you know❤️ Much love to you sweet one!!! P. S whatever works for you, we’ll support you patiently and passionately😘

Thank you for the update! Make whatever changes you need that will help you; I'll still be here to support you, G 😊 Prayers, love, and best wishes to you and your family! 💖

Gael sweetheart, I definitely understand where you're coming from❤, and for sure the care of family takes precedence. Any solution that allows you to handle your day to day caregiving responsibilities is the right one! I wish for your family members to experience good health and happiness.💕 That goes for you as well, love.❤ Thanks for taking the time to update us. Please be sure to take care of you, too. It's easy to overlook yourself sometimes when seeing to the needs of others. Love you so much, G. Big hugs.😙❤💕❤💕

Family always comes first, Gael. We all understand that! And as a caregiver I ask you as your Lovelie to make your down-time a priority, too. You badly need that time to rest, relax and decompress. I’m 55 now; I started caregiving when I was four, helping my Mom with her father, who had diabetes and emphysema. Only a few years after we lost Granddad, my Gran became a stroke patient, diagnosed with the same form of arthritis Mom and I would end up battling. We took care of Gran at home as long as we could, through my high school and college years. Mom retired early due to the arthritis, and we had to give up the care of Gran then to a nursing facility near home. We still visited twice a week, and I was now caregiving on my own for my Mom and Dad. I was a full-time caregiver for 40 years, and part-time for 9. You have a big heart and a beautiful soul to do what you’re doing. I’m so glad we can help, and give back a little, for all the warmth, enjoyment and relaxation you’re given us!

Thank you for the update. Being a caregiver is a difficult task that can be all consuming without a time management plan. As Angie stated, this is your workplace and we must be respectful of your needs while you still, selflessly, attend to our wants. ❤️ Take care of your loved ones as they need you the most. We will be here still supportive and holding down the Gaelandia fort. 😌❤️ Workshop thread here we come! 😊

Thank you so much for everything you do! Family always comes first. I’m also caring for my mom at the moment. Oh, does it take time, patience, and strength. Wishing you all the best! Pls don’t forget to take care of yourself too ❤️

Looking after loved ones can be trying and challenging (and incredibly moving and rewarding at the same time...full of precious moments that will stay with you forever). I'm glad you've found a way to minimise any unneccesary worry on your side! 🍀❤

That last bit goes for all of you caregivers here, btw. I know it's hard to do (heck I am not that great at it) but even 10 or 20 minutes to listen to an audio, read a book, get an ice cream (I'm a little hungry 😂)... whatever helps you to just take a step back and breathe. We got this, one day at a time, one hour at a time. 💕❤💕

Being a caregiver definitely isn't easy and so many don't understand the breadth and width of being one. With that being said, we are here for you, we appreciate and want the best for you! Sending loving energy to you and your family!💋💚

As a fellow caregiver, I totally get where you're coming from. You do what you need to do. Thank you as always for keeping us in the loop! And I'll tell you what I'm always being told - please find time for self care. ❤ Lots of love to you and yours, Gaelfam!

Understand completely..I'm having to take care of my family alot due to health issues at the moment. Wishing you and yours all the best things possible!

Take care of your folks and yourself!! You rock, G!!

Sending loving vibes to you and your family! ❤ We'll be here cheering you on, remember to take care of yourself too. 🤗💖

We adore you and I’m so glad this allows you the time you need 💙 we’ll always be here and it’s not like there isn’t a lovely library of archived audios to listen to! 🌸💛

Cosmic

That is how ya champion in the Communication Department... you got my support 👊🏾 and prayers 💙

All good, G! Family comes first and you need to do what you need to do. ❤️ You’ve always been so caring and thoughtful of us so thank you for that! I hope things go well with your family. Take care of yourself too as you take care of them. 💕💕💕

Thank you for the update G! 💗 I'm fully supporting your workshop idea for PAs - if that is something you think works better for you right now (or in the future), then I'm here to help! 🙌 This is still your workplace, and when change is needed, you take those steps and we help you through them best as we can! And totally understandable where you are coming from. Being a caretaker definitely means your time is not yours anymore. I've done it with my Dad (and let's be honest, with my dogs too), and sometimes I had to work around his needs and requests. Still, I would do it again and again. You take care of your family and yourself, and we will be here cheering you on and on! 💗 Love to you, G! 💗🦊🍀

Awww we love you too dude. I totally relate and i know its not easy on the mind feeling pulled in different directions. You dont get another family or your time with them back so please take care of you and your loved ones ❤❤❤ P S i think the new format is fair 😊

Sounds good to me. Take care of your family and schtuff bb, thats most important! ✌❤

You do you and do what needs to come first. Family is important and comes first, we get that. Take care and best wishes for you and your family~

You are such a kind, caring, devoted soul, G. Of course family comes first. Take whatever time you need; you know we’ll support any decision you make because you have a life away from the microphone too. When I was caring for my gran after her few months in hospital last year I had to take time off work, so I understand exactly where you’re coming from. I do wish your loved ones all the best and remember to take care of yourself too ~ L 💜

caregiving is hard, draining, it takes a strong heart and mind to achieve. i completely understand a need to step back and reevaluate how to spend your limited time and energy. take care of yourself g.

Dovakel

Family is the best part.. We are family for you Gael 🤗

Katarina93

We’ll always be here for you, Gael. No matter what you need, we’re here! I made the decision last year to look after my parents full time so I know their needs are being met. I always feel family comes before anyone else so if you feel like you need to take a break or a step back then please do that. We appreciate everything you do for us Gael. More than you’ll ever know 💖

Anything for you, Darling G-Spot! You always take good care of us, and I have no doubt that will continue. You are so precious to me and all of my “sister wives” ♥️♥️♥️. Love and Peace to your beautiful family, too.

Family has to come first, and we understand that. You already do so much for us, so I'm sure nobody will object to you shaking up your recording schedule to meet the demands of family life. Much love to you and yours ❤❤

😘😘Take care of yourself and your loved ones, G.

Gri (Sassy_One)

You do what you need to do for you and yours G. We r here for ya. 😘

Best of wishes for you and your family! Family always comes first.

You need to do what you need to do fella. We get it. Remember yourself as well 🙌