Patreon Exclusive. The Woman who doesn't know what she wants.
Added 2019-06-30 00:51:10 +0000 UTC
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I've been on both side of this the good guy and now the "mysterious one". Girl texing me sending me nudes while tell me about her ex who was such a nice guy but was boring her to tears.
2019-07-09 17:44:36 +0000 UTCI think the problem that this guy is facing is that the girl is great in all aspects (no red flags) , except for the way she handles relationships. So you'd just be thinking "if she comes with me then it's all good", but she's not wired the same way and that's frustrating. I have lived that recently...
2019-07-01 08:02:10 +0000 UTCShe is friend zoning him....to continue with her would be a waste of time. Move on.
2019-06-30 07:44:59 +0000 UTCGood advice as always Alex! The only point I would make is the bit where you suggest texting her to tell her you need space and then ghosting her for a month, before texting her again. I think actions speak louder than words. If you're a man focussed on your purpose with other options romantically, then you're not really going to be interested in a girl who is only luke warm about you. Therefore, I personally think it would be better to, rather than tell her you need space, genuinely get on with your life, forget about her, and date other people. Chances are she'll reach out wondering where you've gone after a few weeks. Or perhaps you'll never hear from her again. Either way, you win. My point is, when you have developed more emotional investment in someone than they have in you, the only way to "repair" thus is to cease initiating all contact.
Communicate With Confidence
2019-06-30 02:45:43 +0000 UTC
