When this man says he "hates to sound like an asshole" because this rubs him the wrong way, he is showing part of the reason why that woman doesn't really desire him: he is programmed to think and behave in an obsequious and weak manner. If that's clear to me from a single sentence, then the women surely pick up on it. The other significantly larger factor is of course that he is most certainly nowhere near as good looking as the men she would've otherwise wanted.
I don't know whether there's really a solution to the problem this man faces, which is being undesirable to women in their prime. He could accept it, and be with the women who feel they settle for him, or he could decide to not be with them. Either way he will lose out on what he feels is real affection. The only action plan I would have for him to find a woman who actually desires him, is to looksmax, lie *down* about his job and earnings in the initial stages of dating women, and only consider relationships with women who have sex with him freely as they did with the guys in their prime rather than because of jumping through their new hoops.
Alex, this kind of problem may make a useful video.
2019-09-13 19:02:58 +0000 UTC
Can you really blame them? They have so much opportunities, so of course they will choose the man that appears to be of highest value from the one available (unfortunately for them, they might not be able to discernate which one is the most suitable for a LTR, but that's another topic). As a man, if you are suddenly very successful with women, you will choose the highest quality woman possible, so it is no different. We cannot blame anyone for trying to get the best partner they can, because that's what everybody do. In the end, I am happy to be a man, because my SMV is not going down after 30, and that leaves me much more time than women to find out what /who I want, and to actually get her.
2019-08-12 08:38:47 +0000 UTC
why is everyone so bitter, damn. understand how things work and get what you want. don't need to bash people for their biology jeez.
2019-08-12 02:40:04 +0000 UTC
I don't need no consolation
I don't want your reservation
I only got one destination
An' that's your dirty love -
- Frank Zappa "Dirty Love"
2019-08-11 23:18:05 +0000 UTC
Lol..... "Lying sacks of excrement"... I would not go that far.
I think women know what they want but think its a sign of weakness to admit it, also the whole lying to men is a shit test to weed out the weak men, and to manipulate men to gain resources, this is why men get 'friend zoned', they failed the test.
All women want to be dominated. chasing a woman is a sign of weakness.
Women want a man who...
Is taller
Stronger physically
Earns more money
Is willing to put himself in danger for her.
Dominates her in the bedroom
2019-08-11 23:17:42 +0000 UTC
So this guy just got a taste of the red pill.
What have I learnt in MY life...
1. NEVER take advice from women.
2. Improve yourself through everything you do.
3. NEVER chase women.
4. when you are 25 and older she should ALWAYS be younger than you
5. always be a leader in the
relashionship ,never ask her to lead you.
Am I wrong? what do you think?
2019-08-11 23:13:04 +0000 UTC
If you just want a woman to be honest you will be waiting a long time (picture Rip Van Winkle). Women are genetically incapable of what men call "honesty". Watch Alexander's video on "the mean justify then ends" morality. Women are lying sacks of excrement because they can't even be honest with themselves.