If you spend all of your time looking for the rule and not the exception guess what you will find? The rule. Optimism is often conflated with naiveté. Optimism is actually a lot harder than pessimism. What Alex is saying is tune your receiver to a higher frequency. There are a multitude of reasons to do this, only one of which is making you aware of high quality women.
Kent C Johnson
2019-09-04 14:36:59 +0000 UTC
It is better to call it trust. Subject of Hope is something that you know deep inside you ll probably never get. It is easier to rationalize to confirm your story why you ll never get to where you want to be, than to start making the changes necessary.