Patreon exclusive - if you are constantly improving yourself amdbuilding value in the dating market then when is the right time to settle down?
Added 2020-05-06 09:06:12 +0000 UTC
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Those comparisons to finance are useful for me.
Tord Pettersson
2024-07-13 04:10:04 +0000 UTC
lmao you think women are that freaked out by guys in their mid-30s or later? they don't really care, as long as you're cool. sure, she may not want kids with you (MAY not), but most girls won't be creeped up by a guy who is decades older, as long as he is not a creep. just dont be a creep
Dean Martens
2021-03-06 09:14:58 +0000 UTC
There are the men who get married right out of school or apprentice etc. There are guys who watch that first batch have kids. There are guys who get married and divorced.... kids or no kids. Then their are the guys who do the 2-3yrs dating sequence and find themselves around 38ish. Men are a fine bottle of wine that get better with age if you stay in shape, learning, open to adventure and keep smiling.. (up to a point) the women mostly want the baby experience and a plow horse whether they know it or not. Be carefull men and enjoy the journey.. LoL
K M
2020-05-28 00:21:51 +0000 UTC
Nonsense, you’re generally still a dumbass at 25, I would say 27-32 would be a general norm
Darius Stravinskas
2020-05-07 10:18:43 +0000 UTC
Well said, bhaiya. @hardik
Super Saiyan Trunks
2020-05-07 08:08:03 +0000 UTC
24-29, you're welcome. @darius
Super Saiyan Trunks
2020-05-07 08:06:38 +0000 UTC
I don' think you need to worry about it. Peopl have bought into this idea of this thing -when in actual fact, settling down is a social construct. We have notion or cultural accepted ideas about different stages in life which is arbitrary. Alex videos embraces this idea that it worthwhile pursuing an idea of freedom based in the reason and logic which has it's basis steeped in the Enlightenment. One has a choice whether to accept (very conventional-I might add)culturally approved forms or what society would have people accept, versus living a life which is free.
Max
2020-05-07 01:43:12 +0000 UTC
I'd say talking about early-mid twenties. Obviously, self-improvement is self-improvement, doesn't matter what age you are. If you're better than you were yesterday/last month/last year, then that's that. Obviously its a tale of two opposing trends. The older you get (over 30/40 age range), the the bigger steps in self-improvement are required, as now age is against you in a way.
So until you’re at the point where each increasing year older you get decreases your value (in your opinion for what your goals are) , meaning there’s no real range other than until the point where your value decreases with age.
For me that won’t be until post 35 I think. I guess I’ll know when I get there, I’ve no idea
Julien
2020-05-06 17:24:30 +0000 UTC
I think this is as narrow of a range as you can get for a generalized male. For a narrower range we have to consider your culture, career, dating options, your personal state of mind and needs.
Hardik Gupta
2020-05-06 11:49:51 +0000 UTC
That’s too broad of a range, would need something of 5 years interval.
Darius Stravinskas
2020-05-06 11:18:26 +0000 UTC
Ikr, I wish he gave an approximate age range. But with all the knowledge AG has blessed us with, I’d have to say that it’s 25-35, that’s the golden decade. But if you’re over 35 and you’re trying to date a college-aged woman, she’ll think you’re a creepy old dude and will probably call the cops on you if you tried hitting on her. Your competition will be young, ambitious, healthy, virile, attractive men. But under 25, most men have finished school and haven’t spent more than a year or two at their ACTUAL professional career-based job (not talking about working at McDonald’s), so they don’t really have the proper finances to raise a family and such. Just my thoughts though.