Some Feedback On My Video About Dating As A Middle Aged+ Man

seems to me the hypergamy model fits the older dating younger model. I dunno why there seems to be contradiction here. Seems to strike a nerve with some virtue signalers here. Also, I don't know what the difference is between a high value (younger) male who has armed himself with all the knowledge of Red Pill and PUA, and the high value Older male that has maybe acquired this knowledge through experience. Why should one of these be considered a "predator" and the other is not. Please explain Alex.

No offense, but when I hear this, I can only think of shallow interactions based on pop culture. Yeah, in that case, you won't connect. But many prefer deeper things. If a young girl reads Seneca, for example, we have a common interest (and the last 19 yo who pursued me, in fact, was very into philosophy, one of my areas of expertise and interest). If you're into fitness, fine dining, intellectual matters, even travel, there is much room for common interests.

William Mullen

Most women will never intimately touch the body of a man who looks like he stepped out of a Marvel movie or a Men's Fitness cover. If you can bring that to the table, regardless of age, you're going to get interest from women of all ages.

William Mullen

IMO, only if she married young and then got widowed without children.

William Mullen

At age 20? That's rare... women don't usually think about "settling down" until mid-20's, in my experience. Which is why older men SHOULD target 18-23, because this is the age where goals align. She's looking for experience at that age, and EXPERIENCE IS FUNGIBLE. That is, if she not dating ME, she's dating someone else, and that someone else is fairly likely to be a bad boy who doesn't leave her better than he found her (which is MY intent). I don't feel guilty at all for dating in that range, but once they get older then it becomes a more realistic probability that you're holding her back from a family.

William Mullen

I don't know, maybe I'm unusual, but I've never wanted to date much younger women. Yes, they are physically very attractive, but I very rarely have anything in common with them. I never considered dating women my age a compromise, because I find that I usually have a much deeper connection with them.

Ken Schafer

You are both right in different ways. We understand the crochety stick in the mud out of shape guy being called a creep if he goes to low - that is a given. Here is when the the issue comes in... (as long as he is cool enough to integrate with her friends or she can stand alone) and she is learning and he is just hanging and they both enjoy. Sooner of latter she will jump ship (normally you don't get more that 3yrs.. they have the tic tok egg baby thing-sooner or latter). The guy will go along for the ride. The younger guys go along for the ride and then either drag it on as long as they can or take the plunge way too early. The question is when does the guy "do the right thing" (regardless of age) - how long do you dicern and either pull the trigger or walk. I think guys always drag it on more than women because of biology and comfort and laziness...LoL -but what do I know. BTW... i do think it is easier making conversions from Sugar Daddy or ex Sugar Daddy into a young thang... that not. But again ... what do I know ..LoL

K M

I always come back to the biology. The purpose of a relationship is to create a stable foundation for raising children and a the health of a relationship can be judged by it's capacity to fulfill this purpose. That's not to say that incredible relationships are not possible with dynamics that have nothing to do with children but for me that makes the most sense to have as the benchmark.

Alexander Grace

Age doesn't strictly define a person! If you are 40 or 50 but you look good, you have a good state of mind and you are decent regarding the lifesyle your finances allow, you can have young women too!

I'm actually working on a video right now about whether it's possible for a 30+ year old woman to still be considered "high quality", as the "red pill" defines it...

Communicate With Confidence

Yeah, I think that might be our main point of difference - having done the whole marriage thing myself for 16 years and realised that it just doesn't suit my personality, I certainly have a more "liberal" attitude to the definitions of a healthy relationship.

Communicate With Confidence

Good video. I think the only point of difference between us might be that I have a stricter definition of high quality, in that if there was a 20 year old woman whose priorities were such that she wanted to use her valuable youthful years pursuing a non-serious relationship with a middle aged man rather than try and find a similar aged man for eventual monogamy and raising a family, I would say her priorities are off in this particular matter. That's not to say that she couldn't be pretty, intelligent, kind, feminine, creative and using the experience in a healthy way to learn about herself :)

Alexander Grace