She Has To Love You MORE Than You Love Her - Patreon Exclusive with Full Reaction Video

The point she makes at 21:10 does hold some validity from what I have experienced. I am a U.S citizen and I have never witnessed this phenomenon In the U.S, however I did spend a number of years in a latin american country where this was quite common. Young women would get pregnant with a guy, then they would completey cut the man out of their life when the baby was born. Also want to emphasize that the man in every situation was willing to commit to his child, leaving out the possibility that the men were simply alpha males who didn't want to commit. My thoughts on why this happens is because in the communities where I have seen this, the females involved always had a circle of family and friends that would support her and help her raise the child. I also want to keep in mind that the women were quite young in every situation I witnessed. When I first saw this I immediatetly thought that this happened because the women were not educated properly on how to have safe sex. However when I actually talked to these people they told me otherwise, stating that they had every intention of having a baby. This led me to ask why they felt the need to reject their husbands if this was the case, Every woman I asked said the same thing, which was that they felt like the husband wasn't good enough to be a provider and that they just wanted a baby. To be fair, unlike U.S culture, the culture of this country heavily promoted women to have babies, and many women that I saw loved having babies.One example of this is my aunt. who has had 6 different children in her life, with several different men. The way she talked about it made it seem as if the only reason she ever wanted men was specifically so that she could have a baby and nothing else. She genuinely loved the experience of raising children and just wanted to do it over and over again. The most interesting thing about all of this to me is that the society that these women came from were quite traditional, these people lived in strong community settings and were quite poor, meaning that most of them had no access to internet or television which would be the main sources of input for modern ideology. Many of these people were quite disconnected to the outside world and the ideas of feminism so I found this baffling. They individually chose to be independent from their man while raising children.

she says she wants the man to want her and but not clingy.. BUT THATS NOT what the video talks about. the woman wants to be desired. that is not the same basically she agrees 100% with alex but does not like the truth.

I just re watched this. One point struck me. Alex is talking to men. Giving men good advice. The women don't accept what he is saying at face value, from their perspective. But the phrase 'a fish can't teach a fisherman how to fish " pops into my head. It really doesn't matter if they agree or not. Alex is right. We have to be the leader, as men. A good leader keeps good people around them and listens to those good people's advice. But in the end decides if he's going to use it or not.

I absolutely agree. The video made me think about this a bit. And I think when women are proud about being able to raise a child alone, they put their ego above their child. In todays modern society, especially where I live, raising a child on a single income (plus child support) will not give your child a good head start. It will suffer from great disadvantages when compared to children who have been raised with a double income family. Single mothers are accepting future disadvantages for their children in favor of feeling independent and self sufficient.

David Koerner

The fad of not needing a man to raise kids smacks of solipsism. Sure, you don't NEED a man to raise your kids. A man doesn't NEED you to raise his kids either. It's a pointless argument because on its face it's true. Deriving egoic gratification from the basic fact that you as a single parent can raise kids is missing the point. That aspect of your life isn't really about you. If it is, you're doing it wrong.

The question from Alex made them feel inferior. It showed, as Margaret noted, their ego took a hit. Initially everything seems equal at the start of a relationship but in my personal experience there has been only a single instance when I was not wanted more.

Hristo

Thanks for the video. Great content! I was somehow shocked by some of the comments of both women. The sweeping statements they made half-jokingly or while laughing had the impression on me that they did not take the subject very seriously and were not very invested into the discussion. I am convinced that there are women in that age range with whom a more deeper discussion on the subject would have been possible. Not the best choice. I am particularly appalled about the comments made near the end on men having to earn being part of the family and such. I think the video does a great job in exposing one of the fundamental problems men have in our modern society: women have the impression that they do not need men anymore or that the use of men is limited. Super interesting: does the man have to earn being part of the family, or does the women have to work to keep the man around.

David Koerner

That's what I got out of that, too. What Alexander is saying contradicts so much of what women are taught from a young age. It FEELS offensive, like an attack, the first time you hear it. You really have to stop, think, and process the fact that you've been lied to your entire life. THEN you have to accept and embrace the real dignity and challenge of being human, both male and female.

Margaret

Or because, once the real tests of life came along, she realized she COULDN'T depend on him. People become single parents for a lot of reasons, and it's a tough and scary road. I'm here because I am a single mother with teen boys. A two parent household is the ideal. It's what every child deserves. But when that is no longer possible, one parent still has to step up and do their best to understand both roles.

Margaret

17:15 "I can relate to what you are saying is all true.. but then my feelings are hurt. So I can't accept it"

Wild_Card

She could NOT look to a man to protect her while she was pregnant .. Because she had abandoned the guy.. or it was a pump and dump and she got pregnant and left

Wild_Card

I was shocked to see the reactions of the women at your very last word, they absolutely feel like the artificial environment which protects and provides for women in their greatest time of need is the cause of their own power. My daughter is 22 and a single mum..yeah I know...Well she believes she is almighty because she is doing it All-on-my-own, so she has no concept of reality, if she found herself in a poor third world country her and her child would perish, this is why third world women don’t have this delusion.

I really liked this experiment man. I also really appreciate the way you hold your opinion and your ground in nuance throughout the dialogue. For me personally, I am always shocked that women in general react so negatively (almost spontaneously) to the logic of evolutionary biology. There is definitely more of a tendency to the grounding of evolutionary biology within social context and construction. I think that social context and construction also play a role, but it has to be situated within an evolutionary biology logic to really work effectively.

In the U.S there's just a vast number of weak men who still have unconscious holding patterns from childhood which affects their relationship with women. On the other hand there's the sinful culture of the promiscuous social media market where a woman can pick any man of large numbers but most of them pick whatever reflects their inner character. Aka demons. I always advise and aware of what parts of myself do I need to integrate before dealing with a woman who may be more of a mess likely. At the end if the day, it's everyone's responsibility to get their own needs met.

That was my thinking Stuart. Only in a world where men had made things amazing could they now be considered disposable

Alexander Grace

It's a good thing this was a Patreon exclusive video Alex. I think the red pill community at large would've had a field day with this. These women seem to have forgotten that its men that predominately created the world that affords them the luxury to consider us disposable now.

Communicate With Confidence

This video is a good complement to the islands and boats video. Men... know your purpose. Women, find a man whose purpose is strong and aligns with your goals and ideals. Then BOTH of you get behind that purpose and bust your asses to make it reality... a legacy for your offspring. It just makes sense. Men are more than sperm donors.

Margaret

I'm not sure what I was expecting, to be completely honest. More of an analytical response, maybe. I think initially the video stung their egos so they were trying to justify that response.

Margaret

What's up? Something confuse you?

Alexander Grace

Huh. ...

Margaret