Low Quality Women Are Like a Toxic Gas - Plus full reaction video PATREON EXCLUSIVE

Lady without tattoos is all about general, sweeping comments but can't give specifics on what true masculinity is. She just uses terms like 'confident', 'relaxed', etc, but doesn't go further in clarifying what she really means when she says she finds a masculine man attractive. Although I don't know her and she didn't go into her family history, I feel that this woman is justifying her masculine nature because she could've had a bad relationship with her father or male figures just in general. As a counterpoint to what these ladies think, being feminine doesn't mean women should be docile and ignorant. It just means being true to their female, feminine nature. I understand and I agree with the argument about being familiar with the masculine thought process as a survival mechanism, I don't think it's accurate to say that therefore acting masculine is justified. This just proves how right Alex is when he said that women in the West, not all but by and large, are overly masculine and they have lost their sense of femininity and that's what makes them unattractive. It has nothing to do with women being more socially intelligent and aware, but rather has to do with the fact that many women today compete over many things with men, and that just drives men away from them, or it causes opportunistic men to use and abuse them. Just my two cents on this issue.

Anosh Orahim

I did a trace search. This seems to be a common thing. Issues dating 3 years and older

Hristo

I see you guys saying your posts are getting removed. As I'm sure I don't need to say, I have no idea why what is happening, nothing coming from me. Site is buggy?

Alexander Grace

My post are being removed as well

Hristo

Wtf, why is my post being removed ? It happened twice already.

Hugo Matiz

Ooo boy, self-belief and self-esteem issues steaming out of your writing, Kyle. You are remarkably accurate with your observations about relationships. I'm dead certain the issue is attachment trauma. Most traditional therapies won't work well. Some peoples trauma is more cognitive than it is somatic. Both are affected but one goes in overdrive. Yours is cognitive. Your brain will always find reasons for you not go for it. Your body is also disassociated. In other words - if you go for it you are screwed. If you don't risk you are screwed as well. The things you said you are good at, the things you learned how to do better are all fine for you outside of a relationship but in one.

Hristo

I have been alone for most of my life. But over the years, I have noticed that I adapt my personality to those whom I work around. I see your point here. I think guys stay in relationships that they shouldn’t because dating is unpredictable and they really can’t control their future. As a man, Few people will find me attractive and I won’t be a consideration for the large majority of women because they have their preferences as I do. Good relationships need to start with compatible people which I think everyone will agree here, those are hard to find. Those guys won’t leave the relationship because they don’t see a positive outcome so, they just deal with the reality in front of them. I work out regularly, have developed myself socially from being a ‘mute’ in college to someone who can start and adapt to conversations. Career wise, I do very well, I have the fortune of having great family around me, and I have been told by both male and female friends that I should be in a relationship right now. I have read books and visited three different therapists throughout the course of my life centered around fixing this particular issue and I have done all everything that they have asked me to do such as joining groups, being more open to unstructured situations, become better at communication, etc. Despite all of this, I have yet to get past the first date even though I go out, ask out, and meet a lot of people. I say all of this because even when I worked on my self to get to where I am at, I still see myself being in a toxic relationship unknowingly because I don’t have a lot of experience dating and I don’t know if I would want to wait another 12 years to have a girlfriend. That’s a long time to be alone... I have done that once in my lifetime, if I had to do that twice, I don’t think I would want to live past the second one. I am not stating the following to get a pity party. Things are tougher for some people than others, and my life could be a hell of a lot worse. I’d figured I’d write this down to maybe help explain why guys stay in that situation where they are with a woman who is overall bad for them. At least they have someone and they are not having to deal with the loneliness that comes with being single. The trick is after that point, how do you be with someone that really cares about you that you really like as well?

Kyle Worden

The conversations with these two ladies have been fantastic!

"Toxic gas" doesn't accurately describe it. I think a better phrase would be an insidious infectious disease that corrodes the essence of one's soul.

DC