She's a bit feminist but I like her videos, plus her advice at the end - it only takes one. I tell that to guy in my private consultations all the time. Don't lose hope, it just takes one

It just takes one chad

Super Saiyan Trunks

Thanks for the additional background. That makes more sense.

DC

hahahaha

Blair

Yeah, I'm subbed to Ana. You can't really understand the world around you from 1 perspective only. Also, she's pretty far from those deep DEEP in it 3rd wave feminists.

For men in today's society, the dangers of marriage are too great. Marriage is a threesome. You, your partner and the government. In most western countries, especially the States, the divorce machine is real and the devastating effect on men is massive. Men, grow old with your friends and let women pass through your life naturally.

I think much of the fear women feel is instinctive, tied to physical vulnerability. Also, very few women could ward off a male attacker even if they didn't freeze in fear and panic. I personally know several victims of rape. Most women know someone who has been bullied, belittled or guilted into having sex by a date, boyfriend or spouse. Feminism is out of control and often toxic, but that doesnt mean you can ignore the realities that originally gave birth to the movement.

Margaret

Feminism is cancer. Toxic for both men and women. No other way to put it

I’d rather Date a man than a feminist and I’m not gay.

Fear is just one. It's the objects of fear that change. And that's psychological fear. Which one are you referring to?

Hristo

I know women live in fear. But the question remains fear of what? If it's fear of men the how much of that fear is based on feeling her experience, and how much is based on feeling invalidated as a child based on real but subhective experience, and then have that invalidation marinade for a couple of decades with the feminist ideology which reframes it as fear of men in general.

DC

I'll check it. Its time to reach that 1001 number on my bookshelfs

Hristo

Have you read the 3% man by Corey Wayne? I don't agree with his casual attitude about sex, but he understands male and female psychology in dating VERY well, and writes/ speaks in a manner that most men can relate to.

Margaret

A book I recommend to all my female friends: The Gift of Fear by Gavin DeBecker. It explains it VERY thoroughly. Many woman can't articulate their feelings or have lived with an ingrained sense of fear for so long that they become almost immune to the feeling and stop giving it credence.

Margaret

"She's a bit feminist..." lol

Margaret

She raises a good point about fear but doesn't explain it. Women live for fear. It's sad.

Kent C Johnson

It's a shaming tactic employed by feminists. And it goes somerhing like this: Adhere to the hypergamous directives of the femcentric society, and MAYBE you shall be awarded with women past their expiration date. If you refuse, we will take your resources, your freedom and your rights because you are a part of the imaginary oppressive system. This is a combination of the false dillemma and the band wagon fallacy crammed into one.

"We don't hate you [...] I love men individually, but as a group, I hate the systematic oppression of women and the patriarchy." How cucked have we become that we are allowing this as a reasonable approach to gender dynamics??

Anna is my celeb crush rn 🔥🔥

Oliver

There are good kind and generous men looking to settle down...but she will only settle down for a good man after she's spent her best youthful years hedonisticslly banging the bad boys, getting her heart stomped and her plumbing stretched and pounded into infinity and beyond. And THEN when her body, mind and soul are CHERNOBYL, she'll settle for a good man, out of necessity, because the alphas don't want her anymore, as they have moved to younger, tighter and prettier girls. The 'good guy' would be oblivious to her past, and the fact that he's about 50 sloppy seconds too late. The car he's paying full retail for, has been driven for free by the previous 50 dudes.