I'd find a woman who flakes on me hard to respect. It indicates bad upbringing, and indicates that she has a hard time setting priorities. If I had children with her, would she adequately prioritize them, or would I have to constantly have to be there instead of her as she's off doing what she wants to do? I'm looking for a partner, not a sexually mature child.
Ryan Stallard
2020-01-11 10:21:24 +0000 UTC
Very thorough, practical advice here. I concur completely. Great to get this kind of hand-holding practical advice from time to time Alex. Thanks!
Blair
2019-12-27 07:16:03 +0000 UTC
Wait, what? It may be like this for some people, maybe even majority, but not for all. I do feel that I am not attracted to some, mildly to some others and massively to a bunch. And beauty might be subjective , but is statistically measurable, which, contary to intuition, does not contradict the subjectivity of beauty. I don't really understand the logic in your last sentence, care to elaborate?
2019-12-23 13:24:24 +0000 UTC
This is why I don’t like when people rate attractiveness on a 1-10 scale.
For one, beauty is subjective so you can’t create a universal scale for that. Two, someone is either interested in you or not. 0 or 10, there is no in between. It’s either a ‘Hell Yes!’ Or ‘No!’ However you want to slice it, it doesn’t do any good to measure interest on a scale because it leaves room for unnecessary interpretation.