Adults only 18+: What to do if your girlfriend is ashamed of her Vagina and won't let you lick her

I love pussy smell and as soon as I am near one I just want to lick all that deliciousness off! If you don't, then stop trying to do her a favour when you aren't into it - why would you do that? When she squirms and objects I just get licking and sucking - it isn't long before shes laughing and moaning and spreading everything wide so I have better access.. If you love it, then dont hold back. If you don't love it, then leave it because she can tell. If you're sucking pussy you should also be using your hands elsewhere, armpits, nipples, and when shes really really ready, then circle her bumhole with a wet thumb tip and push in a bit ONLY when she cums. Dont suck pussy unless you adore it, and if you do then suck it like your life depends on it.

Women base thier self worth on reputation, men base it off of what they can provide. Thats just how the game works. So if she thinks everyone will find out about the condition her vagina is in then of course she will be uncomfortable.

Im an xray tech so i usually i date nurses . They see alot of dicks and vaginas, trust me. They know what they look like at every stage of thier life. I dated an nures who was completely terrified of the idea of me giveing her oral sex. The reason being is that she lnew her pussy smelled like a truck driver's arm pit. Even with the bad smell i still was enthusiastic about wanting her to sit on my face. If you honestly think that its the mans fault for the womens insecurities they you dont understand female nature as well as i thought you did.

Maybe. But my last GF just simply wouldn't allow me to eat her out, even though I loved it. And it's weird, because at first she would enjoy it, then she declined it more and more. Maybe I just sucked at it...

I was once with a lady who was self-conscious of her larger than average labia. She would never let me go down on her even though I personally found it attractive seeing how it looked during penetration.

Anthony S

Timing also matters. At least until she's more comfortable and you're more confident. Try in the 3-5 days of her cycle leading up to ovulation, and really crank up the romance and foreplay. 2 steps forward, one step back. Many women are anxious and so they feel more vulnerable - big libido killers. Your 'take the lead' attitude can help her move past that. And don't stress. Don't be frustrated or disappointed if she doesn't reach orgasm the first or second time you try. You've been studying the technical aspects of oral, and skills matter... now focus on the emotional sensual side and see where that takes you.

Margaret

“Vagina coffee table book publishers - we salute you!” Hahah. Your advice for a woman to give feedback is spot on. That would certainly benefit me and make me more enthusiastic. As much as I consume advice online about how to give cunnilingus well, and as much as I experiment with carrying that out, I’m still insecure about whether I’m doing it well. I hear that for many women, oral is a slam dunk way of giving them an orgasm (that may be oversold in my mind). When it doesn’t happen, despite my effort, I’m confused. I’ll try to be more proactive about asking for feedback - in a manly kind of way lol - and women can also be more proactive about encouraging and instructing.

Blair

Alex, your analysis blaming the guy is a bit superficial. Her insecurity comes from within, and probably a bad experience buried deep in her psyche. If she has low self-esteem it doesn't matter how lovingly he goes down on her. She can always dismiss his effort as insincere since she feels unworthy. People must take responsibility for their own feelings, emotions, and orgasms. And BTW, if she's with a guy who doesn't love the way she tastes she should find another guy. That, too, is taking responsibility for her own happiness.

DC

I find you odd too Hristo.

Hugo Matiz

So u are saying that most of the time women who don't want oral sex are repulsed by their vaginas? I've know two women with medical degree. Both do not want oral. I find this odd.

Hristo