NSFW: What to do if you orgasm first...

I finished first once, then she demanded that i finish her off next. I was absolutely thrilled about how enthusiastic she was about sex. I was so thrilled i went down on her like a thirsty dog lapping up water. Lol. Another technique that prevents you from cuming is to jently tug on the balls away from your body. Another good topic for a video is to go over some infor about wether or not she is capable of having an orgasm and the evolutionary implications. Example it does not require a female to orgasm for a baby to be made. Therefore there is no evolutionary pressure for women to orgasm.

I find doing it on certain stimulants makes me capable of going on indefinitely. Like being shit-faced / intoxicated / inebriated / plastered / sloshed / smashed / wasted (just thought I would add a few synonyms in the spirit of fun words) on alcohol seems to both desensitize me and make me more in the mood at the same time.

Rickard Fors

Good advice about going down before penetration, you can also finger and/or use vibrators. In my experience giving a clitoral orgasm always increased the chances of a orgasm through penetration.

Anthony S

Haha and what to do in case if she doesnt like cunnilingus? Last 3 women i have/had... one of them completely dislikes it because she feels unsecure about how her vag looks, because its not hygienic and so on. 2nd one said me she is not much into it but knows guys love it so she goes along and 3rd was the masculine type Erik mentioned. She just prefered to give oral than to receive it. I guess answer is to just let her untreated, she seems fine with it anyway :)

What your 2nd woman mentioned here, that clitoral orgasms make her tired and vaginal orgasms do not (as to say make her energetic) is quite important to understand. She being nymphomanic means, she is quite cerebrally masculine (you wouldn't agree on that just taking her looks into account). The masculine part in sex is energy-dragging, while the real feminine part often is to receive a lot of energy due to orgasms. There so many women out there not able to receive anymore ...

This is really interesting because that is something I always have struggled with. So I'd like to share a bit of my experience here. First of all, thank you to talk about this, it is a subject that is a bit annoying for me, I tend to come quite quickly, especially if the girl is a new partner. Stress and excitement plays a big part in this. I have seen that if I am stressed out, I would come almost immediately, also if I am really excited. So the first time I would have sex with a new partner, that's a whole 30 sec marathon! More or less. But a couple of things. I would always go down first, mainly because I love it. There is some ego involved in seeing the girl having an orgasm from my licking, it does feel really good! And also I guess I am the guy you mention. I always go for round 2 a few minutes after I come, sometimes even 30 sec or less, if I am really horny. Then round 3 or more... I guess that's how my insides are, who knows. The 2 best experiences I have had with this "problem" was first with a girl who was very helpful and I remember finishing in her (in the condom), her on top. Slowing down then starting again, but not making a big deal out of it. So this attitude made me hard again so we could continue quite easily. (This happened several times with her, she knew how I work) And the last one was a girl who frankly was nymphomaniac. She coumd come super quick. So I made sure that she came with licking first, then she could come quickly with vaginal orgasm as well. When she understood that I could go several times she would always push me. So tiring! This girl told me that clitoral orgasm made her tired, while vaginal orgasms could be all day long. Any thoughts on that? Thanks for reading me, I am curious to see if other guys have had similar experiences.