NSFW: What to do if your partner has a consensual-non consent fantasy

Wow you were extraordinary accurate to the point were i thought you were specifically talking about me.

Thanks for the kind words Bruce, sorry to hear about your losses

Alexander Grace

Gday Alexander, I had 2 postings to Campbell Barracks at Swanbourne during the 60s. I am now a widower of 2 years, and I definitely do not believe in Evolution, however, I find your channel to be fascinating because it works without evolution. My wife was an RN, and because work injuries, she achieved a Psychology Degree, so that she could help people to survive on our harsh world. We constantly talked and talked in that area until her illness had it's way, so sadly. Just so you know, I find your channel to be a great help for my state of mind.

Yeah, I completely disagree with Maher. If he was right, then Fifty Shades would not have been so popular. CNC fantasies are super common, it's just difficult to find the right person and then to create a healthy and trusting sexual relationship to act out those scenarios safely.

I was listening to the Bill Maher interview in Joe Rogan and he was outraged by porn and how men act as if women wanted to be chocked... And it may be annecdotal, but I watched it the morning after a girl expressly told me she wanted to be chocked. I would never fulfill any of those fantasies as it's a legal hazard for men. You have all to lose and nothing to win, if that's not your thing. R*pe fantasies are extremely common. From the paper:"The nature of women's r*pe fantasies: an analysis of prevalence, frequency, and contents" "Results indicated that 62% of women have had a rape fantasy, which is somewhat higher than previous estimates. For women who have had rape fantasies, the median frequency of these fantasies was about 4 times per year, with 14% of participants reporting that they had rape fantasies at least once a week". Another study I read mentions a reason you gave: sexual blame avoidance.

I mean I wouldn't mind waking up to a woman giving me a blowjob, therefore there's no reason women wouldn't want the same.