Addressing my critics: High Quality Women DO exist

Great message, Sir! Thank you!

Kyle, this is very encouraging. Good for you man! That’s wonderful you have such a good mom. Cool to hear a little about the high quality women you know personally (evidence they do indeed exist...haha)

Blair

Good luck and Godspeed.

Kyle Worden

Thank you, Alex, for sharing your world view. I agree with it in large part. At the same time, I feel like there's some room for compassion for low-quality people. Most likely they were dealt a crappy pair of parents and had some kind of traumatic experience (emotional, physical or sexual abuse) when they were very young. And most likely their parents had a similar experience, and they just pass down their crap from one generation to the next. Having said that, and having finally woken up to the fact I've been married to a low quality woman for 30 years, I now choose to divorce her and love her from a safe distance. It's kind of tragic that people are low quality and don't want to change, but that's their choice.

DC

I know a lot of them actually, haha. I did a good job vetting all of the bad ones out of my life, so I don’t have to deal with them or their problems. I have a lot less friends but, the ones I know are great people. One is a veterinarian, kindhearted and very sweet. Another is a current project manager in town, a honest, good woman. Another one I met was a former military wife of a pilot for ten years and her husband left her for another pilot in his squadron, which I immediately felt empathy for her because she put in all that time and now has to start over after she already hit the wall. There are plenty more. I volunteer on occasion, which is where I meet most of the good ones. I think that’s the key, if you find ones that help others without expecting something in return, they will be that way to others outside that situation as well. I was also tremendously helped by my mom who showed me what a high quality woman looked like. She is the most charismatically kind person I have ever met, everyone loves being with her because she is so kind. She isn’t manipulative, she stands up for herself in a respectful manner, is a devoted wife, is a great cook, honest, caring, loving, has a great sense of humor, beautiful, and just a great woman overall. It’s mostly because of her that I don’t put up with bad women. She modeled being a great woman so well that I desire someone like her in my future relationships.

Kyle Worden

Ehhh.. I won't watch this... Of course they exist! However, their ratio is slow. Even lower for women under 35. I encourage everyman here to speak out on the subject. I know about 2 high quality women under 36yo. About 5 over 40's What about the rest of you guys?

Hristo