Bonus Video: Mae Reacts To Why Women Belittle Men

The other problem of course and one which no one wants to acknowledge is discipline. Whether they feel betrayed or let down, especially considering what they bring to the party, it is only the lack of discipline in society that enables them to act out toxic disappointment to overtly.

As Mae says early on in the vid, women don't necessarily know where their resentment comes from and "in today's society women don't real need a man to take care of them". I think it should be noted however that most women are at least subconsciously aware of the fact that it is men that created this society for them and if men were to disappear overnight their world that they generally take for granted would also collapse more or less overnight without men to maintain and defend it.

Awesome vidéo explain à lot thanks alexandre

This video was helpful to me.

Ditto -sooo important to figure this out and have a plan. I have seen too many guys blow right past this and then find out she is out of control with her referance points that set expectations. By that time they are married and on with baby 1. they may go with baby 2 thinking it will change etc - it doesn't and she leaves him with 18yrs of support - Ha! Do the work on the front end boys.

K M

Hey, Alexander (and Mae). Could you do a video that qualifies many of the generalizations you make about masculinity vs femininity? I have the intuitive sense to trust much of what you say, but a question always creeps up at the back of my mind "to what extent do men and women play these roles". For example, is there some distribution of masculinity vs femininity of men vs. women. I.e the 20% masculine man equaling the 50% masculinity for women. Maybe could you describe what has caused this dichotomy to exist? Maybe could you delve into non-heterosexual relationships or how these traits manifest themselves in sexual kinks?

At 5:00 A lot of people perceive romanticism in the wrong way too. Romanticism is not about roses and red wine and petals on the bed. Romanticism is about exceptional characters in exceptional situations - it's mostly about the novelty of sacrifice and altruism, even in the dirtiest and precarious conditions in the world. The exceptional heroes are mostly men. And the few women who play the alpha-hero role, usually have manly trains(like Wonder Woman, let's say).

Yes, and it's not because men can't take that sort of banter from women. But because that sort of banter reminds them of other men, of ruggedness and masculinity - traits that are not very feminine and don't suit a woman in the way that it doesn't make her attractive to him anymore. So, it's not that men can't take the banter but because they don't find that behaviour attractive in women.

This was great content Watching whether Mae agrees or not with Alex's analysis and why. Alexander putting himself in a position to be criticized, is exactly the opposite of the usual vídeos. However, even though I can appreciate some novelty of having Mae's opinions, IF I HAVE TO CHOOSE, I certainly prefer videos discussing a new topic.

Cheers to your female friend, very brave and useful opinion, thanks a lot and by all means keep the female reactions coming

Jimmy Madrigal

double negations make this lyf3 worth living :)

SamG

Most of the things she said in this video were a revelation for me. These female perspective/insight videos are really informative and I would like to see more of these in the future.

Many men are largely unaware of all expectations women have of them and just how exacting they can be with those expectations. I see so many guys who are completely blindsided when the nagging and "shit testing" starts. I used to be one of those guys. I was always shocked by the increasing levels of viciousness and pettiness of so many women.

Ken Schafer

I never saw the original video, so this was twice as interesting. It seems like a lot of this resentment might be really strong fuel for believing in social roles theory. What really blows my mind is how you figured out this emotional thought process Alexander. I dont think I would have ever figured this out solo. I'd love to see more of Mae's candid commentary

Ali Nassar

Around the 22:00 minute mark, she explains how women are oversensitive to being humiliated in front of other people. As a guy, I can understand that it's just another one of those things that you dont want but maybe I'm not as hyper-sensisitive to it as she says women are about it. I've seen some girls go to war with each other by letting out each other's secrets and taking jabs at each other in public in attempts to humiliate the other. Does this hypersensitivity to publich humiliation cause this form of warfare? As a boy, I would just fight physically to settle the scroe and the next week I would actually become friends with the other kid. But once girls fought, they were almost enemies for life.

Ashwin Srinivas

That was awful. So many of Alexander’s videos give excellent insights with well thought out efficient and elegant delivery. This was not in the same class. Come on man this is the Alexander Grace show.

Andy

This is good content and analysis. Your Female friend is very astute. Yes, more please.

yah man "gone girl" is a great movie that reveals the dark psychology of women but men as well, the orgasm scene is def. the best :D, you know what I am speaking of without spoilering here ;)

Yah, it's good, I'd like to see more of that kind of content since it's unfiltered whereas women usually want to stand in a certain light but this is "umasked", so better keep on the shades :D

Props to Mae. Agreed with everything she said. There is only one thing I’ll add that neither Alexander or Mae or addressed. When I was young I always saw men interacting with one another and they’d “give each other shit.” I thought that type of joking was how I should interact with my husband (boyfriend at the time) as well. Early on he sat me down though and said that kind of teasing came off differently from me. So while my conscious brain was thinking I was just “ribbing” my unconscious brain tinged some of those comments with some resentment. I stopped teasing in that manner. My point being, don’t stand for it - say something early on and see if changes once she realizes how her behavior is coming off.

That was a good take. Interesting to see a woman's perspective.

This was interesting; actually made me realise the book I just finished, Gone Girl, is very much related to this topic. I'm not sure if I realised this because of the reaction or because of the original vid (which I have seen before), but I'd call that a new development that avoids this being redundant. Away from that, I think I'd like to see more like this - I remember you've had female friends with you on the channel before and I enjoyed hearing their perspectives.

Kadz

Always good to get some female perspective, found this very informative!

Glad im here coz this type of content can’t be found no where🤎