PATREON EXCLUSIVE: Rant About Parents Who Say They Don't Want Boys :(

After watching the video, I just got reminded that my "feminist" mother, sometimes told me indirectly, that she wished she had a girl + tried to make me play with girly-toys when I was very young. Plus could not dress me properly.. You got to love the Feminist-Socialist-Communist + anti-male psy-ops the "Elites" have run on the population. (Feminist Single Mothers/Matriarchy = The beginning of the end of civilization in my opinion)

William Redfire

I know at least 4-5 guys from high school with same like or less issue, many Have Union based health supports I don't.

Really just waiting to die for some "accident" caused by him un controllable

You don't want a boy with a girl Over 30 IMHO. Who can afford that?

No medication dose much, Covid -19 online learn tore apart a 2000 $ computer destroys everything, no medical treatment so not a medical issue society has no place for him ? dozens of medical people make big $ a do nothing really for him. smash cell phone' poors cooking oil on the floor almost to the furnace , dumps soap bottles out everywhere. Create legal problems for the parents insane.

I disagree and I'm a Man who has a Boy and Girl. The Boy has autism and is a Demon, mute basically at age 6 , but the f word, pisses every where in the house smears shit every ware, breaks into all the food in the house dumps it on the floor yes we have locks many they don't work he breaks them, won't wear clothing plays with himself even in public always tires to steal thing in public

Alex you sound like a chad in this video

Wouldn’t briffaults law predict that parents should prefer girls over boys if the parents want caring and provisioning in their older years? It’s definitely observable in the west.

I've read that here in Denmark more and more don't want boys, cus they're statistically less likely to get an education and do well in life, which is true at least here. Boys are diagnosed with ADHD and ADD in an alarming rate, and given medicine to sit still in class for all those hours. There is talk though, to change the school system and straighten it out. Anyway - I think there's a difference in saying what sex you want, rather than what sex you don't want - the latter is rejecting.

In modern times, people acquire tokens of prestige instead of building actual value and self-esteem. From that point of view, it makes perfect sense that they would want to customize their "baby token" just as much as anything else. (This is particularly problematic with single mothers, but that's a different topic.) Just like every other relationship, their perspective on parenting is all about them and how their potential acquisition should make them feel. This is not just an issue of entitled preferences. This is an issue of basic self-worth in a culture that craves validation above any other concern.

I've heard people say they don't want a boy because they're harder to raise correctly than girls.  But I've heard people say the exact same thing about girls. And I don't think either camp is serious. I think it's something people say to make a joke about some shortcoming they fear they will have as parents. In the U.S. I haven't seen much evidence that there's a preponderance of couples who would abort, or put up for adoption, or abuse, a baby for coming out the wrong gender.  My husband and I planned our name choices very carefully for both a boy and a girl, especially since we had a high possibility of twins. And we got to be sort of surprised because during the pregnancy none of the ultrasounds could get the baby's body at just the right angle to guarantee the gender.  They were 100% sure it was just 1 baby, not twins. And they were pretty sure it was a girl, but told us to be ready for a boy just in case.  But we were so excited for any baby, we just didn't care about the gender.  I think most parents feel the same.  And so will the man that Alexander described. When that man has a son, I bet he will change his mind and love him just as much as a daughter.

Jennifer Coopman

I think you make a good point. But personally if I ever have kids I'd like to have girls because I've never received much attention or love from females, and therefore I wouldn't mind getting that. I suppose it matters what the motive is. But, ultimately, what matters is love. Do you love people? Or do you love what you get out of people?

Basically what you seem to be saying is that these sorts have children simply to... give them certain feelings they think they'll enjoy. It's centered on self and hedonism, rather than a balance of desire (wanting to enjoy the feelings of parenthood) and guided morals (mentally accepting that the child isn't there for our own amusement). Yeah, I think many, if not most(?) people don't really understand love, but are more interested in receiving than in giving. Possibly why so many marriages fail: the moment those good feelings stop, they want to leave because they aren't getting what they got married for.

It will probably just increase the SMV of males at the top.

Todd McDaniels

the irony about the feminist is that they like to brag about how they don't need men, yet they still need men because they need someone to blame.

I was a little girl who played with tonka trucks, loved to get muddy catching frogs in the creek behind our house, and liked to play rough and tumble with the boys up until about age 8-10. I eschewed playing with baby dolls and the easy bake oven my parents thought I would love. My parents wanted me to be that sweet “image” of a little girl (like my older sister), so I admit I carried some baggage around with me for a while because I didn’t fit that mold. P.s. I did love Barbie though - and even way back then I play acted her going to work and marrying Ken (lol - guess I always knew the life I wanted to live 🤪). So yeah, the stereotypes, expectations, and hard coded preferences are messed up and don’t set a great foundation for quality parenting.

If I become a dad one day I think having boys would be its own set of difficulties that I would probably now how to deal with better, being a guy. That said it would be a lot of fun, a learning experience for a dad and son and like what else am I going to do with my life?

Where have all the good boys gone? LoL. I agree with you. This is shameful. What’s sad is the fellow you spoke of is generalizing from his experience with his brother, seemingly unaware of the huge range and variety of sibling dynamics. He may also be unaware of his fatherly role in channeling energy and molding sibling relationships.

Todd McDaniels

I agree with everything you said tbh but the problem runs even deeper than gender. I know so many people that just want children for the perfect fantasy and obviously people are allowed to have fantasies but some people take that to the extreme. For instance, when you decide to have children you need to consider that the child might be born disabled, or just not have the personality you pictured. Like you said, if people are only picturing one thing and anything that deviates from that will result in them causing harm to the child then they are NOT fit to be parents. My hope is that if these people end up with boys that they love them and it makes them open their eyes to the struggles boys face xxx

Alisha

yes it's disgusting but on the positive side sexual market value of males will increase.

Also, if anyone knows why comments keep disappearing or don't appear at all, please let me know! After suffering this for a while I have gathered the following reasons: 1) Too many spaces. The platform doesn't like certain types of tabs and spaces apparently?! 2) When you try posting again, it fails to upload again and then they think you're a bot trying to spam? 3) Idk man, I'm just annoyed.

Ashwin Srinivas

As for having this kind of preference, I would 100% agree that it is sexist and the said couple are not ready to be parents. But I do think AG's reaction to this was overblown. Not like his usual self possibly. I'm guessing the video was made shortly after the conversation ensued and when the emotions were still surging. I say this because of two things: (newline)1) The more pressing question that's still seems to be up in the air is whether or not this ostensibly casual preference would be abated by their parental instincts or attachment to their child whether boy or girl. They could have that preference but it's still the mother's flesh and blood and I imagine that she would love him the same regardless. And the father's paternal sense of duty would still be in place. I agree that this preference could manifest in some sort of mild emotional abuse or negligence but would be outweighed by the other main aspects of parenhood like providing for him, changing his diapers, etc. so, there is still a world outside that the boy can develop in and will be thurst into when he comes of age. (newline) 2) If I didn' know any better, I would say that this kind of gender preference is not the norm. Now, the number of children yo want to have is definitely a widespread preference. So, if there's some statistics on this, it would help quanitfy this problem better. Some outlier stating an enraging preference may not need to spark widespread concern. (newline) So, that's why I think AG's reaction may be a bit overblown. AG was more flustered than usual in this. If I were to be given th topic alone and guess AG's thoughts or demeanor on this it would be that of rational analysis, especially into how exactly some sort of abuse could take place and whether that would be significant. And of course bringing in the data and numbers into this as that matters in explaiing whtehr this is a legit problem or becoming a legit problem in society.

Ashwin Srinivas

It’s amazing how quickly times can change. For most of history, until not even 100 years ago, having a boy was immensely preferred, as he’d carry the family name and bloodline. Royal families would churn out girls until they birthed an heir, and around the world, before developed societies existed, it was normal to birth around a dozen children in hopes for a son.. if the mother survived them all. After birth control and feminism, and soon with genetic selection in foetuses, parents will have more choice than ever. Eye colour, sex, athleticism, height.. even personality traits.. it is all soon available for tweaking. And with our culture demonising masculinity and ‘boyish’ traits as Alex put it, I’m nervous to see the kind of babies we’ll design. So no I don’t think you’re overreacting AG. I just hope we acknowledge the sexism in our world history regarding sex preference in children, and actually follow the true call of feminism, which is to value both sexes equally.

Oliver