PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Why women use emotions to navigate reality

I found some research around the topic of how emotions create our reality from a scientific perspective. It is titled "How Your Genes Listen to Your Beliefs by Dr. Bruce Lipton." https://youtu.be/3Ujx3Ez7dW8?si=59VpwohpHoVa4mTI. I mentioned in a post above that we all create our own reality by projecting our emotional internal reality externally. That "projection" also happens inside of our body which the video explains. I look forward to your thoughts. I hope you find it informative.

Kerry Blaser

I did a little research women do experience more negative emotions than men. I learned something new thanks.

With my six year old daughter, it works wonderfully. Sometimes, she does "game" me and this stops the game right in it tracks. Many times, either something is confusing her or she is just struggling with something. This helps give her a chance to talk about it where we can problem solve together.

Mark Bryski

"you saying x and y is confusing me. Can you tell me more about it?" -Very useful

Todd McDaniels

I think it’s the polarity because I’ve never liked machismo & it’s not uncommon for me to end up liking more ‘feminine’ (in various ways) men. But I really can only have good relationships with other Asperger’s, who are more masculine. It doesn’t work for the guy to more emotional than I am.

RhodiumMaiden

Do you have any studies proving women experience more negative emotions than men? Do you get along with women at all. I work mostly with women and I love it. And the the few men that do work with us are just as amazing. I'm a girls girl, while still respecting the masculine regardless of my sexual attraction. Just saying I rarely experience negative emotions from women, if I do I distance myself. Also modern women are just like you and me. "modern women" like you call them are human just like you and me. Men make plenty mistakes of their own.

Both men and women use their emotions to create their own reality, and here is how. Humans project their internal emotional world externally for the universe/people to reflect back as feedback. So, if I have hate in my heart, then i project that onto other people (what I see outside of myself is other people hating me so I confront them), when in reality, the universe/people are only reflecting my own self-hate back to me. When a person can't regulate their emotions, either man or woman, then other people will respond in a manner consistent with their inability to regulate their emotions as feedback for their poor behavior. An unconscious person could easily see negativity reflected back to them as disrespect when in reality the unhealthy person isn't taking accountability for their own poor behavior, because they are too busy projecting their emotional pain onto others and then punishing others for said emotional pain, like in the stepmother video. She isn't respecting anyone especially herself because she can't regulate her emotions. She lacks self-control. A conscious person takes responsibility for their emotional trauma through self-reflection and forgiveness of others and self prior to projecting it onto others. Since women experience 75% more negative emotions than men and modern women are largely unconscious, it makes sense that women don't understanding how they are creating this negative reality for themselves and then blaming men for it. The dinner scenario is a perfect example. In her reality, she is always right because no one challenges her reality. When the man challenged her reality, she had to reflect on how she would proceed when she didn't have complete control over the situation. His healthy boundary gives her an opportunity to learn and grow. Healthy boundaries are great at giving other people opportunities to sit in their emotional pain and self-reflect, so they can learn from the emotional pain they are experiencing.

Kerry Blaser

And Alexander addresses this at the end of the video

Anthony White

Isn't this down to females as children - this is a general statement, I realise there will be many exceptions - not having the same level of "discipling" because their bad behaviour is less overtly disruptive, and consequentially they grow up without having it made clear to them that their bad behaviour is not socially acceptable. For examples think back to Alexander's recent video on women faking their emotions; a girl behaves badly, the father starts to tell her off, then out come the waterworks. Rather than stand firm the father caves in. That girl grows up to be like the food eater in the video above, unable to manage themselves emotionally and unaware that their behaviour is no different to that of a spoilt child.

Anthony White

Funny. I am actually attracted to such women xD Like when I hear that she doesn't have a lot of female colleagues just a couple of close friends I'm like "Yes!" inside. When I go back to the memories of my crushes they were like that. Often preferring male company, but not necessarily tomboys. They dress up feminine and modest. Speak politely and be kind. It's just they were on the introverted side and I like it. Being rational and down to earth is also a bonus point for me. Overly social girls scream drama to me and evoke visceral reactions. Dealing with one woman is bothersome. Whole pack? Yikes. And yes I can see the accusations that I may have not developed masculinity enough. Fair enough xD

Cezary Skoczek

Oh my god. I have these experiences with my six year old daughter. When it happens, I draw on something called PACE (Playfulness Acceptance Connection Empathy). This involves many "What else?" questions when the "bullets" are being fired at me. We basically have gotten to the heart of the matter when she can no longer respond to "What else?". Then we get into the "I wonder why/what...." questions relating to the heart of the matter. And....I never make accusations when she contradicts herself. It is always "you saying x and y is confusing me. Can you tell me more about it?".

Mark Bryski

My ex used her negative emotional reactions (which were triggers from trauma, which she was in dential about) to write the narrative my behavior, to my bewlidermant. I wanted to help her, but she didn't need help. She said I was 100% to blame. I'm so sorry for her...it's a hell/nightmare they live in.

Alexander Knight