PATREON EXCLUSIVE: What is the correct way to relate to a woman who has rejected you?

This one discussion contains great thoughts. I'd want to underline an earlier comment, that a female with lower smv might still "have to" reject a more valueable male, if it doesn't work out biologically. The same dynamic would probably show up the other way around (although men are more "trained" to spend time with females they're not that mich into due to their lack of abundance). Personally, I experienced it once, that a girl, that did give mixed signals, initiated contact after weeks, after "softly" rejecting me. Later, she admitted that I wasn't physically absolutely her type (Not the masculine, muscular woodchopper of her fantasy and shorter than her, which probably played a role). As she was part of my social circle back then eventually "personality", "game" and being still attractive, but just not highly attractive, all mixed up, made it work. It developed into a friendship with sexuality and she heavily fell in love and later on tried to manipulate me, to force me into a relationship (making a scene the next day after meeting, love bombing). Clearly, she wanted that relationship and also would have made use of getting pregnant, if I would have let it happen (she suggested not using condoms). Probably she "discovered" after a while, and during my progress, that I was "high value" (in our dynamics back then). Other possibility: She would have never acted like that with a man she was completely into and crazy about, and acted like that as she enjoyed it, but also saw a betabuxxer in me she would respect less than the kind of man she considered as highly attractive. She didn't act that way, when we've been meeting, was very grateful at my place and not a loud/agressive/bragging woman. I guess she wanted to just push me into that betubuxxer/soon-to-be daddy role. Still, I didn't rely on that, and after she soft rejected me the first time didn't push any further, as it would be irrational, self-humulating and might just boost a womens ego. Six weeks afterwards, she contacted me and was totally open to meet up to "watch a movie". I knew this could have meant she changed her attitude, and she did. No man should rely for that to happen whatsoever, it's just the exception to the rule. It hasn't to be denied completely from my pov - a healthy mindset is necessary for this though, to prevent oneitis etc. Question I am noticing here: How much of a oneitis might be physiologically. Are there men that aren't suitable for that practic, as they have to experiences oneitis physiologically just like a drug withdrawal (lovesick)?

Is there? Most people love at least two, their parents. Why would romantic love be different?

gru koin

Isn't there a psychological fact that you can't be in love with 2 people at the same time? That's why it's a bad idea getting rejected by being thrown in the friendzone and still nurturing that. You will never make a spot for someone new. I think this is still valid, even though they were not talking about being in love, just being rejected in general.

Renan