PATREON EXCLUSIVE: Why don't young men learn 'Game' anymore?

When I mastered game I ended up hating myself and loathing women for how well formulas can work on broken women. The thing is that treating women as prey turns you into a predator. Now I'm stuck because I can't unsee it.

Kent C Johnson

I need to work on my game. 😏 to boost my confidence to really true understand in my bones. I have options I could find another if i wanted. Easily. Im not in anyway bound to this girl out of necessity

Peter

I really wonder if I should revisit the topic, I had left it behind, because how disingenuous it feels, and how in authentic, but that said pick up being the gateway to allow your natural instincts to take over, as Matt said, perhaps I don’t need the pick up specifically if I am living out my masculine frame and having the natural instinctive game I would have to get out there and date and talk to girls to actually know that Not really in the cards right now And from what I have seen, and how I feel about interactions, there is definitely still some awkwardness And there is a consistent perception of me, being soft🤷‍♀️

Peter

You mentioned how it must feel, if forever, you are uncertain, if you could find another woman That is an extremely interesting thought I tried the cheap pick up route, maybe 10 years back . But the more my personality shone through the less success. I had even with one person at the beginning. Interesting one date, interesting to date interesting, third date gone So I could get them into bed maybe but not to be my girlfriend Now, having worked on myself to be a better version of myself, I wonder if I would have more success in the girlfriend apartment As a result, I would consider myself unsuccessful by woman Furthermore, over one night stands would hardly make a dent in the actual amount of time I had sex if I had a long-term relationship I may have gotten a decent amount of girls into bed, but I still feel a bit of “ I am not enough” Here’s to the next challenge 💪

Peter

I was into PUA stuff about 15 years ago. As a nerdy tech guy, I tried to solve my personal life as if it was a math problem, which I'm very good at. Predictably, after several years of trying by myself and later with a local PUA guru, it was a complete failure. Thus, I learned about the black pill long before the term even existed. Nowadays, I wouldn't recommend anyone to learn pickup. In times of Tinder and #MeToo, all this game stuff is just a dangerous waste of time. What you actually need to learn is the truth about women's psychology, gain actual dating experience, learn to understand women's manipulations, and determine your actual SMV. And that's it. You won't need anything else. Being attractive to the opposite sex is almost effortless, and if this isn't your thing, just accept it.

Great topic you raised here Alex!

Blair