PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Giving advice to a 40 yr old single woman + the difference between 'rushed' happiness and 'gentle' happiness

I don’t agree. I only get both gentle & intense together, long term, or essentially nothing at all. But I usually try for up to 3mo with a man who has potential anyway. Maybe I’m just weird or maybe it’s different for women. 🤷‍♀️ I do seem hyperwired for monogamy.

RhodiumMaiden

Alex, your a savage in this video. If I ever ask you for advice I think I would end up in tears. But, your right about taking accountability. If your single it's your fault. We all got a glimpse of what happens in hey hero LOL.

Ouch. But I agree. I think older woman like myself 45 know we're at the bottom of the dating pool. We don't need to be reminded. This video was so cringe. I would like to make the same video about an aging 40 year old man. Let's see how many men like that video. LoL 😆

I wish women in general would stop making these videos. I'm embarrassed for her airing her business like that. Some things are better left for therapy. A female therapist, not a male that's just going to tell her she had it coming. Sorry Alex didn't like this video.

Patreon allexander, Grace advice for 40 old woman Tldr: you subject matter expertise is a wonder to behold everytime. Im jelly. Tho didn’t you spent almost 2 hours with Matt, explaining why women should !NOT! Be looking in their friendzone for a partner? Also, this information is benefiting who exactly? Which of your audience or your target group doesn’t know that guy is generally find younger women, more attractive? I did like the section about rushed and soft love. In its current form, I don’t know if this should have been uploaded. ——— the general trend of Alexander Grace is an exceptionally high one. The depth an aproach is near 2nd to none. I have to admit so far, I’m not loving this video Firstly, considering your target audience, who of them is going to benefit from the Info that men enjoy young woman… I mean seriously that was “duh” moment Secondly, I remember a very long discussion with Matt, in fact, an entire patron exclusive discussing if women should be looking for partners in the friend zone. And you’re very specifically, both of you said NO THEY SHOULD NOT. On the other hand, though this section about soft and rushed love which you also spoke to on the podcast episode with Orion about his current partner might not be as exciting as that unhealthy party girl, but that’s slow Burn rather than twice as bright half as long relationship is so much better, could have been a whole video onto itself And that would have been up to your moral standards, I feel and a bit more in line with your goals. If you want to add excitement, perhaps you could talk about, is it better to get with a baddie / citygirl/party girl/ short dress wild girl/ the boat baddie/ of girl/ the fuck your brains out wild ride/ suck like a vacuum cleaner girl or that kind “normie” (insert matts 6x “s” list) girl I’m sure you could make the thumbnail interesting with some skimpy clothes, only fans girls This video is not up to your usual PAR. It might be a nice click bait, get peoples emotions going on YouTube . But apart from pandering to your audience, and generating engagement in emotional pro and con arguments. Which don’t really bring anyone forward. Aka maybe your ad revenue or your positioning within the algorithm. Interview with Orion, about the slow growth of genuine and authentic content, and not pandering to the outrage economy of YouTube. Not to mention. The conflicting information about the partner out of friend zone, or at least not offering context to that departure from your previous very well explained and lengthy explanation to the contrary, i feel like this video sh not be uploaded in its current form. I don’t think this video was worthy of patron Sorry to say There’s always going to be hit and miss if you actually do stuff rather than just critique other stuff This was a miss And I am often amazed how well read you are red, and the fact that you can remember the contents of these books, including the authors names, even from years back. Confirming the fallacy of an appeal to authority in having a formal education, what you talk about, and how you talk about, it makes you somewhat of a subject matter expert in my eyes Keep up the good work I am still very much a fan and in general, your catalogue is fantastic and helps ! Many kind regards P.s. notice the sandwich method of giving feedback. Lead with something positive sandwich in the negative an end again with a positive Did it work in softening the blow of my critique??

Peter