PATREON EXCLUSIVE: The Joy Of Missing Out (JOMO) - Leaving the dating market

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RhodiumMaiden

When ever i get with gf i have JOMO. Im so glad to be out of that desperate moshpit I hope to change the reasons for the releif. More the joy of going to the next stage and being happy Rather the. Being gone from the missery of constant rejection and the emotions and mental state that come with it

Peter

100% Agreed. Sometimes Proverbs 21:9 comes to mind. It’s amazing how much one’s peace of mind can be made or broken depending on the company one keeps.

I’ve got to WARN you guys: I stayed in a physically, abusive relationship for years. One huge contributing factor was because I did not want to go through the dating process again. What Alexander is saying is that you should be joyful in a relationship that doesn’t have very much going on because that is a Woman brings PEACE. Peace is exactly what you want in a relationship. Don’t use your apathy for the dating market as a justification to stay in a bad relationship

Am I the only one that likes when Alexander curses? LOL This is a great video. If you hate dating I think you are meeting women in the wrong places. Good girls with values volunteer in churches, work after school etc. If you only go to night clubs you will only be exposed to party girls. I agree with almost everything on this video except living together. Many women I know moved in with their boyfriends and never got a ring. Once men have you, they get comfortable and lazy. You can get to know each other on trips, sleep overs, quality time spend together. I don't believe in wifey duties without marriage first. That setup only benefits men, cooking, cleaning is for wives. You want to know what makes women bitter and masculine. Playing house and catering to a man, only to have it end in a breakup. Especially when she has done it multiple times, it leads to burnout. Every couple is different, not giving advice. Just my humble opinion as a woman.

I guess it's purely semantic. What I call "game" here is those behaviors which maintain (and generate in the first place) the attraction themself, no matter whether you are putting conscious effort in them or not. But apart from definitions, I think we can agree that if you start showing too much of your week side and end up being perceived as needy all the time, because you think that you are done because you are getting married, then this is a recipe for disaster.

Mario Veca