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To My Star | Season 2 | Ep 8 & 9

To My Star | Season 2 | Ep 8 & 9

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i like the little summary in the end 😂

Fabi

I want to go into this whole rant on self-abandonment in relationships, but I'll try to keep it as concise as possible... Basically, both these boys are fucked up. Ji Woo has dealt with his insecurities by shutting down and running away, and Seo Joon has dealt with his insecurities by being a 'performer' - someone who people-pleases, always doing what is necessary to make sure that people like him. Neither of these boys actually feels seen, nor do they present themselves honestly and fully. There is nothing wrong with saying that you wouldn't date someone like Ji Woo. TBH, it seems like a lot of work, and they'd have to be really, really hot to make it worthwhile 😆 But as someone who is more of a 'Seo Joon' in their relationships, you can take it from me - making other people happy in order to feel safe and secure within yourself only looks good from the outside. People like this can be initially very charming but very difficult to love because they often don't really know what they want, having never felt secure enough to stop and think about it. Both are martyrs in their own way, and probably suit each other very well. Let's hope that people in these types of relationships do the healing work to help themselves and each other. TLDR: Both these boys are a nightmare and would be intolerable to date in real life, not just Ji Woo.

Dan Beasley-Harling

I don't know what to say. He is such a lost soul. It makes me feel lost. Props to them for making me feel what the characters feel, don't really like the feeling but that is beside the point.

Jens


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