making up after a fight
Added 2022-06-03 18:07:47 +0000 UTCi hate when we have communication issues, because what we are fighting about isn't even what we are fighting about. i don't want to fight anymore, i just want us to work and it's hard when we struggle.
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That damn telephone game haha.funny when played in school not very effective irl.but if these two are having major communication issues I think a transmitter would be a good fun solution :) plus it will stop a breakup which doesnt need to nessesarily happen cause there will be clear,direct talk and the elephant in the room causing the issue can be resolved.and both you can finally rest your head and stop going batshit crazy and she might be going bat shit crazy to.who knows? As for the audio I love the raw,honest,vunerable k.I agree the conflict at hand is being clearly done in a calm straight to the point manner so kudos for showing conflict can be peacefully chatted about and that it takes two people to fix a communication problem and not one.it made me feel like I wouldnt be overpowered and not listened to in this type of scenario.and I'm learning about triggers and how to.be more mindful of recognizing them but it's hard unless open communication around them had so.each partner knows. So I guess my question at the end of all this is what is supposed to be the original message before it got distorted through the grapevine telephone game k?
Stefennie
2022-06-04 15:20:16 +0000 UTCYa,past trauma and baggage can go away anyday.The problem is it will never go away cause our parents might have fucked us up but who fucked them up and who fucked the ones who fucked our parents up and so forth.There is no real way to break this vicious cycle except to come to the awareness we are all victims of it and rapid acceptance and forgiveness are the only ways to really break it as well as trying not to carry those negative patterns into your future relationships which is not impossible but hard af not to do.just have to keep being aware.does it mean that we should forgive and be one happy family,no because there are many situations that the energy is to toxic and you have to stay away for your own survival.sending hugs to you just know your worth happiness.hope this comment helps.π«
Stefennie
2022-06-04 14:58:16 +0000 UTCDrama kid stuff: Telephone *core memory unlocked* :') C o m m u n i c a t i o n π₯Ή This one is so relatable, to the highest damn power. Oof- healthy methods of communication and finding a resolution are so, so needed these days. I appreciate you bringing up past trauma/trauma responses and baggage. I seriously almost cried from how much this resonated with me.
Ashh
2022-06-04 09:10:22 +0000 UTCπ₯²π₯²π₯²
moonx βΎ
2022-06-04 04:32:34 +0000 UTCThis is so healthy I might die
moonx βΎ
2022-06-04 04:32:20 +0000 UTCCommunication. Is. Key. π Love this.
Dufoli88
2022-06-04 02:23:31 +0000 UTCI love these healthy examples of handling conflicts in relationships <3
Silly Sally
2022-06-03 21:32:31 +0000 UTCi was in fact a drama kid, a long long time ago.
BeforeKnightFalls
2022-06-03 20:33:15 +0000 UTCeveryone else: falling for his good communication and ability to defuse conflict me: did you just admit to being a drama kid? π
KayleeJJ
2022-06-03 19:47:29 +0000 UTCI'm not crying, you're crying!!!!! Shut up!!! I'm hard like Rihanna! π
Bed_full_of_Crumbs
2022-06-03 19:46:02 +0000 UTCWhere do I find someone like this ππ»π
Hannah
2022-06-03 19:07:27 +0000 UTCGah damnπ
CarelessBird
2022-06-03 18:52:40 +0000 UTCI love these conflict audios so much. Growing up, conflict was just avoided and stiffled to keep the peace rather than dealt with. These audios help me to realize that you actually can resolve things without holding on and being petty.
Andrea C
2022-06-03 18:34:52 +0000 UTCβ¦you handle conflict so well. In every disagreement audio β¦ yeah π. - (and no I didnβt finish the other audio yet, I had to see what this one was about lol)
Aliviaβs Life
2022-06-03 18:12:37 +0000 UTC
