Chapter Seven of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
08:43 Rupture repair
22:50 Dr. Kirk's apologies
1:27:52 Listener reflection
1:31:49 Changes in the podcast
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Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Seven with an analysis of Chris Brown’s apology.
00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Seven Intro: Chris Brown Analysis, part 2) 01:02 Chris Brown on Larry King
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Chapter Six of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
04:53 Phase 1 - Uncovering phase
13:57 Phase 2 - Decision phase
16:37 Phase 3 - Work phase
22:00 Phase 4 - Deepening phase
23:33 Predictors of forgiveness
39:32 Struggling with forgiveness & sensitivity<...
2022-10-25 15:01:04 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Six with an analysis of Chris Brown’s apology.
00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Six Intro: Chris Brown Analysis, part 1)
00:33 Chris Brown's apology
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Chapter Five of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
00:56 Giving & receiving forgiveness
17:51 Definitions
34:47 Forgiveness vs. Acceptance
42:02 Dr. Kirk's forgiveness
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Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Five with an analysis of Taylor Swift’s apology.
00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Five Intro: Taylor Swift Analysis)
00:24 Joe Jonas & Taylor Swift's apology
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Chapter Four of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
00:00 Culture & transgressions
09:10 Dr. Kirk's family culture
19:40 Culture and meaning
29:58 Accusations in therapy & a hypothetical apology
35:14 Mob assumptions about Dr. Kirk
45:50 Toyota apology
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2022-10-21 15:00:09 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Four with an analysis of Donald Trump’s apology.
00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Four Intro: Donald Trump Analysis)
00:08 Analysis of Trump's apology
09:02 Culture preview
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Chapter Three of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
00:00 Apology efficacy
12:35 Intensity markers
15:35 Remorse
22:37 Prior relationships
27:34 Independent vs. Relational vs. Collective peoples
32:28 Effects & Outcome
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Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Three with a continuation of the analysis of Bill Clinton’s apology.
00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Three Intro: Bill Clinton Analysis, part 2)
00:23 Analysis of Bill Clinton's 2nd apology
17:09 Bill Clinton's (lack of) apology to Monica Lewinsky
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2022-10-20 14:00:11 +0000 UTC View Post
Chapter Two of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
00:10 Predictors of an apology
18:08 Goals of an apology
21:19 Closure
35:04 Acceptance
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Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Two with an analysis of Bill Clinton’s apology.
01:05 Analysis of Bill Clinton's apology
30:16 Bill Clinton's grade
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Dr. Kirk Honda starts his deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter One: Definition and Components)
00:27 Apology exercise
13:41 Definitions of forgiveness
28:47 Happiness = Deep dives
35:55 Other terms in an apology
38:20 Non-apologies
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2022-10-17 14:00:11 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk does a deep dive on all 14 of the personality disorders.
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk talks with Patron Kirsten Palmer about whether or not Jeffrey Dahmer has all four traits of The Dark Tetrad.
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2022-10-15 14:00:08 +0000 UTC View PostFinishing up the first chapter of my deep dive on apologies and forgiveness. This deep dive is way more complicated and meaningful than I thought it would be. Publishing next week. Can't wait to hear what you think of it.
2022-10-14 18:16:13 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk Honda interviews an expert on sex offender treatment, Casey VanHoutan, LPC, SOTP. You can contact her at casey@iceprogrampdx.com.
00:00 Becoming a specialist with sexual offenders
06:03 Myths about sexual offenders
14:35 A potential profile
17:48 Sex education
25:19 Treatment & the re...
2022-10-14 14:00:10 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk and Bob talk about hugs, ethics, and anger.
00:00 Hugs, Ethics, and Anger
00:06 Hugs
02:52 Favorite trips
05:35 Bob & Dr. Kirk's ideal trip together
08:08 Patron break
09:04 OPP
11:10 Medical termination
14:51 Bucket lists
17:09 Justified anger
24:58 Raising emotionally in...
Dr Kirk and Humberto review the new Netflix show about the serial killer, Jeffrey Dahmer.
00:00 Jeffrey Dahmer & homophobia
24:09 Anne Heche & substance abuse
34:01 Assessment of Dahmer
1:24:23 Seeking closeness vs. sadistic psychopath
1:32:21 Show criticisms
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Bob review a case in which a therapist was unethical.
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[Rerun] Have you had moments that changed your life forever? Dr. Kirk Honda discusses his developmental milestones.
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Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.
00:00 Bob's Return to Butler Syndrome and Other Things
00:35 Betrayal trauma
03:10 Emotionally distant
04:59 Butler syndrome
31:21 Charities & OPP
34:33 Kirk & Bob's first impressions of each other
35:48 Resentment
40:30 C...
2022-10-07 14:00:10 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk and Rebecca react to Reddit.
00:00 Drunk, Judgy, Stressed Therapists
01:15 Broken trust in therapy
09:42 Feeling judged by therapist
18:30 Shamed in therapy
22:26 The new chair!
32:00 Vinyls & estate sales
42:28 Stress in the profession
47:22 Holding traum...
2022-10-05 14:00:10 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] We discuss a listener's complaints about their therapist.
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2022-10-03 23:22:53 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.
00:00 Lightning Round Rantings
00:36 Tragedy & empathy
03:11 Biggest lesson in our careers
06:52 Relational trauma & anger
20:38 Therapist secretly testing clients
22:13 House of the Dragon
23:34 Self-compassion
27:43 C-PT...
2022-10-03 14:00:08 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Has civilization ruined our lives? Should we be living as hunter-gatherers? Is it against our evolution to have houses and cellphones? Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Dr. Christopher Ryan (author of Sex at Dawn) who answers these questions in his new book, Civilized to Death.
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Nazanin Nour explains why the protesters in Iran are fighting and dying for their freedoms. You can find Nazanin on Instagram @iamnazaninnour and Twitter @NazaninNour.
00:00 Mahsa Amini & Iranian protests
14:44 Viral support & previous movements
27:40 Experience with morality police
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2022-09-30 14:00:10 +0000 UTC View Post
What makes Armie Hammer tick? What is vore fetish? Dr Kirk and Humberto watched the new documentary on Discovery+ and have a lot to say.
00:00 Armie Hammer intro
06:07 Backlash to documentary
13:12 Love bombing
25:50 BDSM
30:33 Grooming
37:54 Sexual Sadism
