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Vice debates Feminism...and has to their disable comments 🥴

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Chile...

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Merry Happy

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SORRY I'M LATE

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Going live!

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Next Friday December 23rd 2-4pm est.


We’re gonna chat, I’ll talk my favorite tv shows/movies/books/podcasts of the year, and maybe do some singing too!

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From "nice guy" to misogynist in under a decade

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Enjoy this special likkle collab and stay tunned tomorrow for some extra edits!

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Help me pick the title of tomorrow's video!

This helps me know what my viewers would be more interested in clicking on so the algo let's the video ride the wave.

I'll be posting thumbnail options and the full video later today! Sorry it was so late, it has been A WEEK lol



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The Chris Brown dude

Whoever had the time to create an account just to bother my patrons has been blocked. I gave him is $2.50 back as well. I will up the price of being able to view the original livestream and hopefully that'll keep some of these dudes away. 


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Bi-Weekly Livestreams

Hey y'all!

I'm going to be doing livestreams just for my patrons every 2 weeks but wanted to gauge time windows with y'all. Vote below! We'll just be chatting about weekly events and what not.

💕

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Love is...produced, insecure and completely unhinged

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You know what time it is.

0:00 Play

0:13 Intro

3:57 Love is... produced

12:26 Love is...a fantasy

20:02 Love is...insecure

22:59 Love is...?

33:57 Love is...messy

39:11 Final thoughts


My mentor Kerry Sutra's links

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Talking Love is Blind w/ an Intimacy Coach

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Hey y'all!  Ahead of Sunday's video on Love is Blind, I wanted to show y'all the unedited conversation I had about the show with my mentor and friend Kerry Sutra. We talked all about attachment styles, holding space for the kind of relationship you want, and all the mess. Plus she offered some dating advice towards the e...

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The Feminine urge to...Internalize the Male Gaze 🥴 A first look

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Here is the first draft of Sunday's video. A few of y'all commented that you would be okay to see more first drafts and stuff to get a look at my process so here it is!

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Which one of these are we feeling the most...

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Possible thumbnails for Sunday's video.

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What is Cuffing season?...also what if I quit YouTube? (lol) 🤫

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So I haven't been feeling too creative or inspired lately. I honestly feel like I'm in a rut and have no clue what on Earth is happening next. Am I going to be able to keep just making a living off the internets? Is it worth the stress? Am I really doing anything of importance (I know I am to an extent but imposter syndrome &...

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Tv/book/movie reccs

After a couple months of thinking about how to focus on Patreon more I think I’ve got it. I get A LOT of requests from folks to talk about what I’m watching/reading/listening to.


So imma start talking about my favorite bits of media and literature and telling y’all why you should consume it. Recommendi...

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Nostalgia, the gift that keeps on getting rebooted...😒 Khadija Mbowe

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I will be going Live Sundays, then posting it here for y'all! The videos will end up on YouTube, but edited down more so folks that aren't Patreons and miss the Live, won't be able to see the chat, behind the scenes antics, and the chat.


Khadija 💕

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A preview

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So here's a little look at The Intro for Sunday's video! It's more of a digital piece that was inspired by the subject matter in the video so I'm curious to hear yalls interpretations...

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Can the besties just be gal pals?

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Welcome to another Patreon exclusive. Sharing more of my unfolding thoughts on performative bisexuality, particularly with the femmesss!

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All About Lurrrrve Leftover Millennials Ep. 12

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Dennis and I decided to record our podcast via video! Y'all get to see/hear episode 12 a couple weeks early. This week's episode is about Andrew Taint, more talk about the mensiz, and aaaaalll about love...and chaos.

Enjoy 💕

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I've got a lot of compassion...however...

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I'm just rambling on here...

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The Menzis are lonely,...should we care?

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Thank you!

Thank y'all for all the feedback on my last post. After the last episode of the season comes out tomorrow I'm gonna sleep for a couple weeks (lol) and look through the comments and play around with some ideas. I have a couple of things I think could work, but my brain is jelly after the last couple months.


I ...

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How can I do better?

Hey y'all,


At the very end of my most recent video, I went into some more detail on why I was away for most of this year...I really want to figure out a way to add more content to my patreon without feeling burnt out so I was honestly just wondering if y'all had any ideas? Things you'd like to perhaps see tha...

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The Mothership, Dating Advice!

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I got to be on The Mothership podcast and it was fun, entertaining, and full of bisexual lighting...OH and I met Tara and Friendly Space Ninja IRL. It was nice!



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Nihilism, Absurdity, and hope online (and off)

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This episode we're talking nihilism, absurdity, the internet and...hope?


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Abortion: The facts, the feelings, and direct action

Still working on some fact-checking and editing but I'm in my debunking era and wanted to give y'all some helpful information with regard to anti-abortion, forced birth arguments.


This video is going to be long as this is only part of one section...prepare yourselves.


Argument #1<...

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You don't own your partners 😗 The Ultimatum, love and possession analyzed

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Here's some tea y'all, I am semi recently single and have been really contemplating love and intimacy. So you know I had to bring my thoughts to y'all through an analysis of a tv show of course. This was a lot of fun to create and I've got some interesting new concepts that might help some of y'all further evaluate your own r...

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The Leftover Millennials

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Here's our officially podcast logo! 


The images attached are the photos I sent Alice (graphic designer) as part of the mood board. I wanted it to feel flamboyant yet riot grrrl, softness with an attitude. Hard "femme". 90s grunge girls and queens from the ballroom scene were a true source of inspiration ...

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Category is: Straight Black Men in drag for the sake of "comedy" 👀

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I just...

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Months in the Wilderness

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I'm not posting on YouTube today, but I wanted to give y'all a lil somethin-somethin as to what I was up to while I was gone so the first quarter of this year.


This is also the last time you're seeing that bedroom as I've since moved.

(TW: Suicidal ideation and general mental health stuff)

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Women, Sex, and the Internet...

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This was...a journey...

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Broke boys don't deserve no 🐱? Let's talk "gold diggers"

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I'M SORRY THIS IS LATE BUT I WASN'T EVEN GOING TO RELEASE A VIDEO THIS SUNDAY THEN I CHANGED MY MIND SO HERE WE ARE...

The Patron list will be updated for tomorrow btw...


Book mentioned:
Why Women have better Sex under Socialism- Kristen R. Ghodsee 

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